Thank you for posting your query.
I understand your concern.
By the description of your symptoms it seems like you might be having
1. Middle ear infection
2. Wax in the ear canal
3. Sensitive Tympanic membrane (Hyperacusis
I suggest you to please consult your ENT doctor for a physical exam and appropriate treatment.
I Hope I have answered all your queries.
Do get back to me if you have any further queries.