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Can I Ask Gynecologist To Tell Mom I Am A Virgin?
Ok so apparently I`ve been in a serious relationship with my boyfriend for a year and 3 months and we are planning to move out together because of the way my parents are treating me. My dad suspects I`m no longer a virgin and I`m a slut because one night I sneaked out to see my boyfriends because he came from his surgery and my parents don`t allow me to see him so my parents caught me when I got back home so anyways, my dad wants me to go to the gynecologist to see if i`m no longer a virgin or not, so we did had sex but it was protected with condoms and we were always careful, never broke or anything so also we are both clean we got not STDs or anything like that so I am afraid that if the gynecologist tells my mom my dad will kick me out of the house. Also I live in Ontario, Canada. Can i ask the gynecologist just to tell my mom im a virgin...because if he doesn t tell her nothing she will ask until she hears what she has to hear. Please help me.
Sat, 3 Aug 2013
Hello Good Evening,
Virginity mainly based on inactivity of Hymen membrane.
Hymen is intact in a virgin female where in a deflorated woman it is usually not intact.
A doctor can only determine whether a woman has a hymen or not; this does not give an indication of virginity or sexual experience.
Some females who have never had sex do have an intact hymen. Not all females however are born with hymens; it's also quite common for the hymen to naturally rupture due to athletic activities, injury, use of tampons or penetrative masturbation. Not all females bleed or experience pain, upon first time vaginal sex.
Also, some women who have had sex still have part of a hymen; a hymen may not fully rupture during early sexual experiences or even until childbirth. This is because some hymen tissue can stretch during penetration, instead of rupturing.
So you can convince your parents by above description, but only with the help of doctor.
Regards,
Dr. Naresh Jain
Virginity mainly based on inactivity of Hymen membrane.
Hymen is intact in a virgin female where in a deflorated woman it is usually not intact.
A doctor can only determine whether a woman has a hymen or not; this does not give an indication of virginity or sexual experience.
Some females who have never had sex do have an intact hymen. Not all females however are born with hymens; it's also quite common for the hymen to naturally rupture due to athletic activities, injury, use of tampons or penetrative masturbation. Not all females bleed or experience pain, upon first time vaginal sex.
Also, some women who have had sex still have part of a hymen; a hymen may not fully rupture during early sexual experiences or even until childbirth. This is because some hymen tissue can stretch during penetration, instead of rupturing.
So you can convince your parents by above description, but only with the help of doctor.
Regards,
Dr. Naresh Jain
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