Hi, Thanks for using HCM.

After failure of your love/ relation the obession are common and will occur in most of the people. You can come out of this by using alternative medicine like yoga, engaging with other activities, spending more time with friends, family and activities. Have good food rich in fruits and regular exercise. Always have positive energy. Hope these will help you to come out of the obscession you are facing. Hope I answered your question. Feel free to contact me if you have any further queries or any help..
Wish you good health. Take care.

Regards
Dr. Lohit

I agree with Dr. Lohit K's answer. Additionally I would also suggest you to take an appointment with a Psychiatrist, discuss your current set of problems & other symptoms especially disturbed sleep, decreased appetite, libido etc. which might be troubling you but you haven't mentioned. If required you may need to take 6-9 months of medicinal treatment. But I am sure you will come out fine from this mess. Regards

Hi.
I have gone through your post. It appears that you have had some bad experiences in your love life and presently it is bothering you quite a lot.
Obsessions are repetitive thoughts, ideas or images that keep coming to your mind without you wanting them to come and which your try to resist but in vain, and which cause anxiety. Their characteristic senselessness differentiates them from depressive ruminations, or other understandable thoughts.
So you might not be having obsessions, rather it might be a grief or an adjustment problem which is causing severe interference with your functioning. However, this can be cured easily with psychotherapy and medicines together.

Till fall is a lot of time, and if you visit a psychiatrist now, i believe you will benefit well before you leave for mexico.

Hope this helps.
Dr A Rao Kavoor