my father is 86 and is disabled and is gradually dieing of major organ failure . how do i get a dna order ? i don't want to get into the ethics of this, i just want to find out how do i arrange a dna ( do not resuscitate ) order. my father has kidney failure, has has heart attacks, has blood cancer . i don't want to see my father suffer Un-necessarily as my mother did for the last 48 hours of her life when she was resuscitated after a major heart attack.