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What Does A Large Pimple On Penile Shaft Indicate?
Question: My bf I'm pretty for sure has cheated on me lots and swears no I've only been with him and prior to that my husband for eight years. Mon he left gone 12 hrs and mean wouldnt answer phone whole time gone (Tues home) wed back gone same place or so he says nine hours no mention Mon into Tues am of anyhe never said he had large pimple bout size of quarter and swollen on shaft shortly after oral sex within couple hours blister came up on my lower lip good 8 hrs went away after time, today Friday he starts with porn and finally tells me I got ingrown hair and I squeezed it in shower it hurts, couple hours still swollen red I would not have sex or oral sex. Begged me to he would wear condum.He always has a clear liquid thin funny taste and quiet a bit coming out of head of penis before have intercourse can u help me ive never had std
Brief Answer:
Dont worry, it may not be an S.T.D.
Detailed Answer:
Hi, XXXX,Welcome to Health care magic forum.
You lost your mother in 2006, and husband killed in coal mines in 2010,So it appears that you are in a state of lonely XXXXXXX
STD will not be apparent with so brief interval of 1 or 2 days.
The pimple you found on the shaft may be a boil, with bacterial infection, it can spread easily with in a short span of time.
If he had an illegal connection also, any how it is past, so think of the presence, and try to solve the present problem.
Not answering the phone, may be due to any reason, phone might be in silent mode, and he didn't see it.
Clear discharge from the tip of the penis may be normal, and may not have any thing to doubt about.
Being on line there is a possibility of error, so i advise you to consult a dermatologist for diagnosis and treatment .
You may need to have blood tests V.D.R.L, HIV ,and other tests to exclude the std.
Try to keep the the B.P,and thyroid under control so that you may not have any excitation, in thinking of the relation ships, and can have a correct judgement.
Wishing for a quick and complete recovery, and have a peaceful life. Thank you.
Dont worry, it may not be an S.T.D.
Detailed Answer:
Hi, XXXX,Welcome to Health care magic forum.
You lost your mother in 2006, and husband killed in coal mines in 2010,So it appears that you are in a state of lonely XXXXXXX
STD will not be apparent with so brief interval of 1 or 2 days.
The pimple you found on the shaft may be a boil, with bacterial infection, it can spread easily with in a short span of time.
If he had an illegal connection also, any how it is past, so think of the presence, and try to solve the present problem.
Not answering the phone, may be due to any reason, phone might be in silent mode, and he didn't see it.
Clear discharge from the tip of the penis may be normal, and may not have any thing to doubt about.
Being on line there is a possibility of error, so i advise you to consult a dermatologist for diagnosis and treatment .
You may need to have blood tests V.D.R.L, HIV ,and other tests to exclude the std.
Try to keep the the B.P,and thyroid under control so that you may not have any excitation, in thinking of the relation ships, and can have a correct judgement.
Wishing for a quick and complete recovery, and have a peaceful life. Thank you.
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Yogesh D
Thank you, I got all excited I have never had std or been with someone who is 29 and no sex drive cant get hard but can if watches porn first. Im older and have way more sex drive he says its hard enough to keep erection during sex but has to hold erection down with hand while watching porn. And trying to hide fact he is watching it why lie? I dont when I see one. Im far from a ten I know, but he acts if it disgust him to have sex never kisses me,he never but handful of times performed oral sex on me. I even thought maybe he is XXXXXXX and im just a beard. Idk but he is leaving tues either way. Phone shouldnt be on silent we run 24hr towing service. I know and feel somethings not right and aides, hepatitis is not a gamble I want to take. He also has place in his jawline next to earlobe that has bn there yr or better like pimple he says stuff comes out has bad odor but it never goes away, some of his friends and their gf have similar things and most trade their soul for bad things. Thank you again time to out on big girl panties move on
Brief Answer:
He might be nervous of sex with a out sider .
Detailed Answer:
Hi, welcome again,
It doesn't seem like he is a XXXXXXX since he has erections while watching porn. Perhaps his low erection is due to fear or feeling of doing a sin. It is common with the beginners. He scared of having even the pre sex. So he might be avoiding you. You should talk to him about it casually.
At the same time you are also seems to be scared of the sexually transmitted infection and hepatitis. Since he is leaving this tuesday, I guess both of you use this time to understand each other. Don't worry about the switching off of the phone etc. It may not be related.
To be XXXXXXX both of you are scared of the sex / associated infections. Use this time to talk to each other and understand well. Things should look clear after the discussion.
Thank you.
He might be nervous of sex with a out sider .
Detailed Answer:
Hi, welcome again,
It doesn't seem like he is a XXXXXXX since he has erections while watching porn. Perhaps his low erection is due to fear or feeling of doing a sin. It is common with the beginners. He scared of having even the pre sex. So he might be avoiding you. You should talk to him about it casually.
At the same time you are also seems to be scared of the sexually transmitted infection and hepatitis. Since he is leaving this tuesday, I guess both of you use this time to understand each other. Don't worry about the switching off of the phone etc. It may not be related.
To be XXXXXXX both of you are scared of the sex / associated infections. Use this time to talk to each other and understand well. Things should look clear after the discussion.
Thank you.
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Dr. Prasad
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