Question: Hi Doctor,
My exposure date - 22nd Dec 2016
- Kissing , touching cheeks , neck of girl of unknown hiv or std's status.
- Nude bath in shower and kissing her while bathing and touched her vagina from hand.No Fingering inside.
- Sucked and licked her breast extensively
- Nude on bed , kissing and sucking her cheeks and breast and on bed and finally penetrated on bed sheet( no vaginal touch and lip locking at all)
- She had some dry scar or white rash at her ribs near neck and may be by mistake i have touched from my hand or lips.
- Uthera contact to bed and may be her leg or stomach but not at vagina.

My test Results
Hiv 1-2 elisa - neg ( 15 days)
Hiv 1-2 elisa - neg ( 51 days)
HIv 1-2 Elisa CMIA ( Dr lal path Labs) - Non reactive at 120 days - 4 Months - Value 0.22
HIv 1-2 Elisa CMIA ( Dr lal path Labs) - Non reactive at 220 days- 7.5 Months - Value 0.06
HIv 1-2 Elisa CMIA ( Dr lal path Labs) - Non reactive at 270 days - 9 Months -Value 0.07
OTHER STD TEST in 4 Month
Hep B & Hep C - Neg (120 days) -
Herpes 1-2 - Neg (120 Days)
Vdrl - Neg (120 days)
Claymadia - neg (120 days)
ESR - Normal ( 270 Days)
CProtein Normal - 270 days
High colastrol - 310 ( tested 2 weeks back)

Still Having major complications :

1) Feeling very very weak ,light headiness , blurr /weak vision.
2.) Everyday i have lot of uneasiness all the time , too much breath discomfort all the time.
3) Neck and back pains sometimes.
4) Feeling cold and burning eyes even after too much sleep.
5) Not able to focus or concentrate on things and lack of coordination.
6) Persistent Soar throat - But sounds like acid reflux
7) My wife is also getting irregular periods , intermittent fever , headache and body pains also ?

My Major worry ( where need your kind help)

1.I would like to share that during my multiple test till 9 months , i had multiple sexual intercourse with my Wife in between".Does it considered as exposure or not? / Does it cause any impact to test results ( even if I assume if I got the infection and tested all the times till 10 months after having intimacy contacts with my wife)
2.How to corner if its really STD or all such symptoms are only coz of fear of STD/anxiety?
3.How to explain this scary feeling of dizziness , weakness and breath discomfort all the time ( Is it related to high cholesterol or anxiety or STD) as all such symptoms overlapping in each of them.
4. I need advice if i have to forgot chapter of STD and focus on other reasons of cholesterol and anxiety to address such issues?

Hi Doctor,

I am aware that 90 days window has considered as final.But need your upmost advice on below point:

1.I would like to share that during my multiple test till 10 months , i had multiple sexual intercourse with my Wife in between".Does it considered as exposure or not? / Does it cause any impact to test results ( even if I assume if I got the infection and tested all the times till 10 months after having intimacy contacts with my wife).

Does it any way going to change my various test results. Since in most of the web sites its mentioned as "one should not have any other /new exposure before test".

I have my visa renewal test going to happen after few days and i need your advice completely to allay all my fears.

Now my wife experiencing cold , cough , fever , cluster headache and body pains ....m not sure we both r safe or what is going on ? Is it normal viral infection and nothing to do with STD.

Please help.

Hi Doctor,

Yes we both are in very much exclusively monogamous to ourself only. Even In my last mistake i haven't had any penetrative sex happened with the girl.

So should i keep all the fears aside and move ahead to normal life with my family.Since we are planning for another baby and want to double sure of no STD test further require in my case.

Pls suggest.