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What Causes Pain During Intercourse?

Posted on Fri, 25 Jul 2014

Question: sir, two days ago it was my first time having sex , wen the tip of my pinus insert the vigina my girlfriend was in much pain, then i put it in half way slowly then she pulled me out and told me no more she was in pain, hearing from this was she a vergin? n the second time we tried it i was able to put it in all the way in but she was hurting then she told me to stop, n said no more beacuse it hurt her

Answered by Dr. Anshul Varshney (4 hours later)

Brief Answer:
It is difficult to comment.

Detailed Answer:
Dear Friend,
Welcome to HCM. I am Dr Anshul Varshney. I understand your concern.
See, there are no sure shot definitive signs of virginity.
It is generally considered that if a girl bleeds during her sex (that occurs due to rupture of hymen), she is virgin.
But reverse is not true as hymen can get spontaneously teared in any one specially after an accident, cycling, playing.
So, no one can assure you with what you have told that she was virgin or not.
Pain during sex is also not a sign of virginity. Many girls get pain during sex the whole life.
So, what we consider as sure sign of virginity is "Trust".
Hope you understand.
If you have any further query please ask me.
Stay Healthy.

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar

Follow up: Dr. Anshul Varshney (14 minutes later)

thank you sir, wen a girl is a vergin dosent it take a few trys to finily have a intorcourse with her? i wasent able to do it on the first try, i dident see if she bleed, wen my tip tuched her vigina it seemed to really hurt her, on the next day i was able to go a lil bit further but then she said to stop kus she was really hurting.... n i heard that wen a girls not a vigin you can just go at it without the girl hirting bad

Answered by Dr. Anshul Varshney (8 minutes later)

Brief Answer:
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Detailed Answer:
Dear Friend.
You are right, but as i told you there are no hard and fast rules. A girl might be acting like that!!!
So, you can't ascertain through these things that a girl is virgin or not.
Stop thinking all this because there is no point in thinking all this.
Just discuss this with the girl and trust her!
If you have no further query please close the discussion and rate it.
Stay Healthy.

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar

Follow up: Dr. Anshul Varshney (5 minutes later)

sir also wen i insirt my tip on her vigina only my tip went in, i did not have a condom then she pushed me back but i left precum stains on her underware can that get her pregnet? i did not cum i just knew i had preacom

Answered by Dr. Anshul Varshney (5 minutes later)

Brief Answer:
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Detailed Answer:
Dear Friend.
Since you didn't have intercourse so chances of getting pregnant are very minimal. But precum also contains sperms so it can't be assured that there are no chances.
If you can tell me the date you had sex and her last menstrual period, i can help you better.
Stay Healthy.

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar

Follow up: Dr. Anshul Varshney (7 minutes later)

XXXXXXX 27 on a friday, i only insirt my pinus head and her last period she had was on XXXXXXX 8 she says she starts her period on the begining of each month or at the end of the month

Answered by Dr. Anshul Varshney (2 minutes later)

Brief Answer:
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Detailed Answer:
Dear Friend,
She seems to be safe, and her periods should get start with in a week.
In case, she misses her periods let us know.
If you have no further query please close the discussion and rate it.
Stay Healthy

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar

Follow up: Dr. Anshul Varshney (9 minutes later)

thank you sir, is that normal sir wen a girl starts her period in the begining of a month n then the next month she starts it at the end of the month?

Answered by Dr. Anshul Varshney (3 minutes later)

Brief Answer:
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Detailed Answer:
Dear Friend.
The cycle varies from person to person and periods date shift every month based on duration of the cycle.
If intercourse is done around 14th day of menstrual cycle then that is the most risky period with high chances of getting pregnant.
Hope this helps you.
Stay Healthy.

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar

Follow up: Dr. Anshul Varshney (6 minutes later)

thank you, sir is this true if u have sex and ur period was sopose to start somewere that week , beacouse of having sex a girls period wont be till next month?

Answered by Dr. Anshul Varshney (3 minutes later)

Brief Answer:
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Detailed Answer:
Dear Friend.
No this is not true. There is nothing like this that after having sex the girl misses her period for a month. This is absolutely wrong information that you have got.
Stop worrying. In case she misses her period write to me again. Will tell you what to be done.
Stay Healthy.

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar

Follow up: Dr. Anshul Varshney (4 minutes later)

thank you sir, sir also my XXXXXXX it sometimes gets red n ichy like iritated, migth it be beacouse of the sweat?

Answered by Dr. Anshul Varshney (10 minutes later)

Brief Answer:
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Detailed Answer:
Dear Friend.
To give you an expert comment I need to see the photograph of the concerned area.
Click and attach a photograph.
Stay Healthy.

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar

Follow up: Dr. Anshul Varshney (13 minutes later)

wat can it be?

Answered by Dr. Anshul Varshney (3 minutes later)

Brief Answer:
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Detailed Answer:
Dear Friend.
It can be a fungal infection.
I would advise you to show it to a dermatologist.
Even if you wish to discuss that here, you may send your query to dermatologist Dr XXXXXXX Bansal at Healthcaremagic.
I advise you to clean the area properly daily and apply Clotrimazole powder daily over the local area and groins.
Stay Healthy.

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar

Follow up: Dr. Anshul Varshney (4 minutes later)

sir is the nizoral cream good?

Answered by Dr. Anshul Varshney (2 minutes later)

Brief Answer:
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Detailed Answer:
Dear Friend,
It might be Dermatitis.
You must not apply creams by yourself. Nizoral is used only if fungal infection is there.
A dermatologist can well explain you about your problem. So, get in touch with dermatologist as i advised you.
Don't apply creams at that area by yourself as that is a very sensitive area.
Good Luck.

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar

Follow up: Dr. Anshul Varshney (6 minutes later)

sir wat causes dermatitis or fungi?

Answered by Dr. Anshul Varshney (8 minutes later)

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Detailed Answer:
Dear Friend.
Dermatitis is caused by using any irritant creams and even undergarments and improper hygiene.
Fungal infection is mostly caused by leaving the area moist.
If you have any further query please ask me.

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar

Follow up: Dr. Anshul Varshney (8 minutes later)

is this something dangerous? is it curable? i had sex on the 27 does this affect my girlfriend? i only insert my tip? can i use the clotrimazole cream instead?

Answered by Dr. Anshul Varshney (5 minutes later)

Brief Answer:
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Detailed Answer:
Dear Friend.
Its not a dangerous condition.
It is easily treatable. Treatment would be based on the diagnosis that a dermatologist can give you.
If it is a fungal infection yes it can spread to your girl friend through skin contact.
Clotrimazole cream can be applied but it would be helpful only if that is a fungal infection.
If you have any further query please ask me.

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar

Follow up: Dr. Anshul Varshney (3 minutes later)

and if its not a infection just the fungi wat can be used?

Answered by Dr. Anshul Varshney (3 minutes later)

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Detailed Answer:
Dear Friend.
Fungi is also a kind of infection.
For fungal infection Clotrimazole cream can be used locally .
For severe infection we also give Oral Fluconazole.
Stay Healthy

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar

Follow up: Dr. Anshul Varshney (2 days later)

sir, about wen i explaind about my girlfrinds period. i only insert my tip inside of her it was XXXXXXX 27 n i was wet, only the tip went in, then pulled it out, my girlfriend said shes soupose to be on her period already , she was on her period around XXXXXXX 8 , she also said sometimed it hapens in the middle of the month or at the end of the month, you said if she dident start her period to ask you wat to do next? can she be pregnet?

Answered by Dr. Anshul Varshney (1 hour later)

Brief Answer:
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Detailed Answer:
Dear Friend
Confirm from her and tell me that on 8th of XXXXXXX her periods started or got over?
I want to know the exact date on which her periods started that is the first day of her bleeding.
Revert with this.
Stay Healthy

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar

Follow up: Dr. Anshul Varshney (6 hours later)

if am correct she started the fist of XXXXXXX and ended the 8th, it lastes her a full week

Answered by Dr. Anshul Varshney (3 minutes later)

Brief Answer:
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Detailed Answer:
Dear Friend.
Try to understand its not a guess game. You have to be sure. In case your guess is right she must have got her periods till date.
Confirm this.
Now next and easiest step is to simply do a urine pregnancy kit test done. The kit is available on the counter in the market.
Get her testested. Review with the results.
Stay Healthy.

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar

Follow up: Dr. Anshul Varshney (4 minutes later)

does her periods till date mean she has them like the same days of every month?

Answered by Dr. Anshul Varshney (4 minutes later)

Brief Answer:
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Detailed Answer:
Dear Friend.
If a person has a normal 28 day cycle. Then usually periods get shifted 2-3 Days before the last date every month. This is how I calculated. In case she had her 1st day of period on 1st XXXXXXX then she was expected to have her periods around 28th June!!
But just confirm this From your girl friend.
Good luck.

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar

Follow up: Dr. Anshul Varshney (6 minutes later)

my girlfriend said she begins them at the beginin or middle or at rhe end of each month, every month she said it could be the fist days or last of the month , is this possible?

Answered by Dr. Anshul Varshney (19 minutes later)

Brief Answer:
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Detailed Answer:
Dear Friend.
This thing is variable. You can't surely say that when her periods would surely occur .
But what your girl friend is saying is possible if her periods are irregular.
If you have any further query please ask me.

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar

Follow up: Dr. Anshul Varshney (9 minutes later)

sir after having sex , how many days will it take for a pregnency test to work? will it work if i use one, its only been 8 days after only puting my tip inside

Answered by Dr. Anshul Varshney (3 minutes later)

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Detailed Answer:
Dear Friend.
Pregnancy urine test gets positive after 10 days of missing the periods.
So if her periods were expected suppose on 28th XXXXXXX her test would be positive if she is pregnant by 8th of july.
Until and unless you give me exact dates I can't really comment the probability of getting her pregnant.
You have to give me proper details.
Stay Healthy.

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar

Follow up: Dr. Anshul Varshney (51 minutes later)

do u think i should try a pregnecy test just incase?

Answered by Dr. Anshul Varshney (4 minutes later)

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Detailed Answer:
Dear Friend.
At this stage pregnancy test might not be positive. Best way out is to wait for a week. If she doesn't get periods with in a week you can get her tested.
If you want you can ger her tested even now. There is no harm otherwise in testing.
Good Luck.

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Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar