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Posted on Fri, 19 May 2017
Question: Hi Doctor,
This is XXXXXXX I am 24 years old. I don’t smoke. I don’t consume alcohol. I exercise 2 -3 days in the week at the gym for 1 hour daily. I drink tea 1-2 times a day.
I have a penis that is 4.3 inches in length while erect. I had the habit of masturbation for the past 6 years. I am not married and I have not had sex with anyone.
My first problem is I used to masturbate 7-10 times in a month. But for the past one year I have reduced the masturbation to 5 times a month. Sometimes I lie on my stomach with my erect penis on bed or on the spongy towel spread on the floor and rub myself on the towel and with 2-3 strokes I ejaculate. Sometimes I used to ejaculate 3 times a day.Last week while bathing I soaped my erect penis tip for 5-10 seconds and I ejaculated immediately. I am scared that I am suffering from premature ejaculation.
My second problem is I have the habit of watching porn regularly/frequently for atleast 1-2 hours in 4-5 days in a week. Sometimes I used to masturbate while watching porn. I have a habit of watching Porn in my underwear or naked. For the past one year when I watch porn I start getting an erection and the erection rubs across my underwear’s waistband 2 or 3 times and I ejaculate.
I am unable to stop watching porn. I have erotic dreams every night. Some nights when I lie on my stomach I rub my penis and I ejaculate in my sleep unconsciously. I heard that watching porn can cause erectile dysfunction. I am scared because my parents want to get me married between 25-26 years.I am scared that I will not be able to satisfy my future partner and I fear that I will suffer from erectile dysfunction caused due to watching porn. Whenever I talk or think about porn I get an erection.I have the habit of reading online sex stories daily and playing online sex games once in a while.
About 5 months I found that I ejaculate within 20-30 seconds of starting masturbation. So in order to increase my sexual stamina I started practising the start and stop technique of masturbation.
I have practised it for the past five days and I have prevented ejaculation while practising i.e. I did not ejaculate at all. I did not cum during the start and stop technique. After the practice I feel a pain in my pelvic region or in my balls.
My questions
1. Am I suffering from porn addiction? How can it be cured?
2. Should I stop watching porn permanently, if so how can I do it since my mind thinks about porn regularly/when I am lonely.(I get lot of sexual thoughts)
3. How can I know or how to check If I am suffering from ED? If I am suffering from psychological ED how can it be cured?
3. If I do not ejaculate while practising the start and stop technique will it damages my Reproductive system. Will preventing ejaculation cause problems such as Hydrocel or infertility or damage my urethra. Provide tips on how do this technique correctly.
4. I am worried about my small penis size. I have doubts whether I can satisfy my future life partner with this small 4.3 inch erect penis.What can be done?
5. Does eating vimax pills for 6 -12 months and performing penis enlargement exercises increase penis size?
6. I feel like I am having low sexual stamina. I want to have a good healthy sexual life with my future life partner satisfy her sexually with orgasms,Please guide me on this. So please guide me to improve my sexual stamina, my libido and cure my sexual problems such as premature ejaculation and ED.Please suggest a solution for me to last long in Bed.
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Answered by Dr. Dr. Ashok Kumar Choudhary (49 minutes later)
Brief Answer:
Please read below

Detailed Answer:
Dear XXXXXXX
Thanks for using Healthcaremagic.

I read your query and understand your concerns. Since you have specific questions I will like to answer them without wasting time.

1. No, you do not suffer with porn addiction. The 4-5 times in week and for a limited time indicates that things are under your control and porn is never a priority over the basic needs which rules out addiction. You need to engage in one or another work and spend time with family and friends. In addition avoid staying alone in the room.

2. Neither porn nor masturbation causes ED. In case you have psychological ED you need to visit a psychiatrist for counselling and management. In case you have doubt again in person psychiatrist consultation warranted.

3. No it does not affect you in negative way. Let me know how you are doing so I can correct if there is any deviation.

4. You have absolutely normal size penis. Majority population have 3-5 inch and you have average size penis. Nothing need to be done.

5. No, It is scam.

6. Premature ejaculation is treatable and behavioral techniques are mainstay. Since you are doing start and stop techniques I will prefer to see results over a month.

I hope this answers you.
Thanks and regards.


Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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Follow up: Dr. Dr. Ashok Kumar Choudhary (22 hours later)
Thanks for the reply.

Let me explain the start and stop technique I do.Please analyse and clarify it.

In the start and stop technique I first start masturbation without any lubricant I masturbate and stop immediately when I feel like I am about to cum.I don't ejaculate.I stop the masturbation and I rest for 1-2 minutes then I repeat the process.I repeat the process for a total time of 20 minutes.But the most important is that I don't ejaculate at all when I am doing this process.
Sometimes I feel a pain in the pelvic region or in my balls.So my doubt is should I ejaculate at the end of the start and stop technique(i.e after 20 minutes).If I don't ejaculate will it damage my urethra or reproductive system.

I am doing this start and stop technique daily.If I ejaculate daily wont it affect my valuable sperms,wont it make me tired.If I ejaculate daily will it cause premature ejaculation,weakness and infertility.

My second question is when I ejaculate after masturbation the semen is watery and thin.Plus when I ejaculate the amount of semen that comes is very less.So my doubt is Am I suffering from low sperm count.If so How can I increase my sperm volume,motility.I want to increase the thickness and amount of semen that I ejaculate.I want to have healthy sperms with high motility so that I can have a good sex life in future.


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Answered by Dr. Dr. Ashok Kumar Choudhary (8 hours later)
Brief Answer:
Follow up

Detailed Answer:
Dear XXXXXXX
Thanks for follow up.

Regarding start and stop technique it is completely ok and you are doing well except not ejaculation. The pain you are experiencing is known as blue balls and normal if you do not ejaculate. It is your choice whether you want to ejaculate or not since it does not affect you negatively except the pain.

I mean to say that neither it causes damage to your urethra and reproductive system not it causes tiredness.

Although semen is precious but it does not mean that if it is allowed to come out causes any kind of weakness.

Regarding your second question rather than the consistency quality of sperms and count of sperm matters. You can have a semen analysis from a nearby laboratory. Go to the lab only when there is abstinence of sex/masturbation of five days and more.

I hope this answers you further.
If you have any further query, I would be glad to help you.
In future if you wish to ask any more questions , you can use the below mentioned link to contact me.

http://doctor.healthcaremagic.com/doctors/dr-ashok-kumar/67386

Thanks and regards.
Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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Follow up: Dr. Dr. Ashok Kumar Choudhary (4 days later)
Hi Doctor,

Thanks for the reply.

Can you suggest some 1.medications to increase sperm count.
2.pills to increase semen volume.
3.pills to delay ejaculation and increase sexual stamina.

Few more doubts

Do the sexual enhancement pills like vimax,vigrx damage our reproductive system?
What is the use of himalaya confido?

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Answered by Dr. Dr. Ashok Kumar Choudhary (9 minutes later)
Brief Answer:
Follow up

Detailed Answer:
Dear XXXXXXX
Thanks for follow up.

For increasing sperm count and semen volume you need to take antioxidant. However I will advice you to request semen analysis from nearby laboratory.

As suggested earlier you need to practice behavior techniques for increasing ejaculation time and no need for medicine at this stage.

There are side effects with these medications including vimax, viagra but unlikely to cause any damage to your reproductive system.

Himalaya confido is used for treatment of poor sexual stamina.

I hope this answers you further.
If you have any further query, I would be glad to help you.
In future if you wish to ask any more questions , you can use the below mentioned link to contact me.

http://doctor.healthcaremagic.com/doctors/dr-ashok-kumar/67386

Thanks and regards.
Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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Follow up: Dr. Dr. Ashok Kumar Choudhary (3 hours later)
Hi Doctor,

I am sorry to say that I was watching porn today.Whenever I see either a male or female pornstar ejaculating in the porn film my penis gets erect and it rubs across the waistband of my underwear and I start ejaculating.Today I found out that I ejaculated very less semen with a little bit of water content and urine.After I ejaculate I get pain in my hips and legs.

Is this a problem(psychological or physical problem)?.If so what is the cure for this.

Earlier i used to masturbate three times a day.(But for the past 1 year I have stopped).So my question is Am I suffering from premature ejaculation because everytime I masturbate or watch porn I ejaculate within 3-5 strokes of penis.

I did semen analysis in the lab and I found that my sperm count is very less(less than 20 million).Plus my sperm are very weak(motility is poor).

Does zincovit tablets increase the sperm count and semen volume.If not Please suggest/name some tablets/pills to increase my sperm count and semen volume and sperm motility.

I exercise 3 days a weak.I do treadmill/cardio exercises for 30 minutes daily(4 minutes of running*3 times=12 minutes of running in elevation and 18 minutes of walking)+ weight training.Does this cause infertility?

I want to last about 15-20 minutes while having sex.How to achieve such good sexual stamina?

Please advise me on how to achieve a good healthy reproductive system with a good sexual stamina,high staying power,high sperm count,high semen volume high libido,quick recovery time after orgasms.
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Answered by Dr. Dr. Ashok Kumar Choudhary (1 hour later)
Brief Answer:
Follow up

Detailed Answer:
Dear XXXXXXX
Thanks for follow up.

The watery semen is subjective thing and it it not possible to know without self observation whether it is problem or normal. Regarding pain and other things it clearly indicates there is deficiency of micro nutrients and use of antioxidants such as fortinerv (ARINA Life sciences) or nervon forte (IPCA) once a day can help you. Zincovit is one option but often there is need for multiple micro nutrients so it is better to take above suggested antioxidant in addition to zincovit.

Regarding semen analysis I will request you to share the semen analysis report which you got in past along with another report for comparison over time.

Masturbation is generally harmless and I do not think your problem is related to masturbation.

Your habit of exercise helps in diffusing the oxidative radicals and helps you in your problem rather than causing help.

I hope this helps you further.
Thanks again.
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Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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Suggest Treatment For Premature Ejaculation

Brief Answer: Please read below Detailed Answer: Dear XXXXXXX Thanks for using Healthcaremagic. I read your query and understand your concerns. Since you have specific questions I will like to answer them without wasting time. 1. No, you do not suffer with porn addiction. The 4-5 times in week and for a limited time indicates that things are under your control and porn is never a priority over the basic needs which rules out addiction. You need to engage in one or another work and spend time with family and friends. In addition avoid staying alone in the room. 2. Neither porn nor masturbation causes ED. In case you have psychological ED you need to visit a psychiatrist for counselling and management. In case you have doubt again in person psychiatrist consultation warranted. 3. No it does not affect you in negative way. Let me know how you are doing so I can correct if there is any deviation. 4. You have absolutely normal size penis. Majority population have 3-5 inch and you have average size penis. Nothing need to be done. 5. No, It is scam. 6. Premature ejaculation is treatable and behavioral techniques are mainstay. Since you are doing start and stop techniques I will prefer to see results over a month. I hope this answers you. Thanks and regards.