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Posted on Mon, 29 Aug 2016
Question: I am 47 year old married having two children but since childhood I tends to attract towards old male and I fantasy them and get errect During intercourse I fantasy old male to get errect ion.It happen in teen when I saw my father dick during the bath since then I masturbate to fantasy him .Now I want transform from these
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Answered by Dr. Chintan Solanki (1 hour later)
Brief Answer:
you need help of a psychotherapist

Detailed Answer:
Hello XXXXXXX

Thanks for writing to us. I can understand your concern.

It is appreciable that you have narrated your problem clearly. As such there is no evidence that this can be a disorder. However when person himself is not comfortable with such thoughts and fantasies, it should be treated.

In routine it requires psychotherapy. With help of therapist your psycho-dynamic can be changed. CBT- Cognitive behavior therapy can also help by changing your cognition with such fantasies and getting orgasm during intercourse without such thoughts through behavioural modifications.

Even after sufficient sessions of therapy if no benefit is there, we can try medicine. SSRI drug may help to reduce such thoughts.

Please consult psychiatrist who can provide psychotherapy or psychologist who can deal with such type of case.

Hope I have answered your query, I will be happy to help further.
Regards,
Dr.Chintan Solanki.
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Suggest Treatment For Gerontophilia

Brief Answer: you need help of a psychotherapist Detailed Answer: Hello XXXXXXX Thanks for writing to us. I can understand your concern. It is appreciable that you have narrated your problem clearly. As such there is no evidence that this can be a disorder. However when person himself is not comfortable with such thoughts and fantasies, it should be treated. In routine it requires psychotherapy. With help of therapist your psycho-dynamic can be changed. CBT- Cognitive behavior therapy can also help by changing your cognition with such fantasies and getting orgasm during intercourse without such thoughts through behavioural modifications. Even after sufficient sessions of therapy if no benefit is there, we can try medicine. SSRI drug may help to reduce such thoughts. Please consult psychiatrist who can provide psychotherapy or psychologist who can deal with such type of case. Hope I have answered your query, I will be happy to help further. Regards, Dr.Chintan Solanki.