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i just got married, my wife is a virgin 19 years old , 160 cm height & 60 kg her weight , the problem we are facing is that once we reach the intercourse step she couldn t open her legs she is scared and she says its very painful although i used lubricants , now she couldn t open legs like her muscles becomes tension once we reach the intercourse
it is common due to pain and anxiety she might not open up her leg
may she have vaginismas'
1st step is make her confident and never go for sex in hurry
try to do fore play and make her vagina more lubricated
start with your little finger and than ring finger than middle finger like this gradually dilatation of vaginal opening after than she become less anxious and feel confident gradually u will process like this
open communication and understanding is necessary not to get angry try to understand her and give your warmth and love to her hope u will get best thank you
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Suggest Remedy For Painful Intercourse?
hiiii dear it is common due to pain and anxiety she might not open up her leg may she have vaginismas 1st step is make her confident and never go for sex in hurry try to do fore play and make her vagina more lubricated start with your little finger and than ring finger than middle finger like this gradually dilatation of vaginal opening after than she become less anxious and feel confident gradually u will process like this open communication and understanding is necessary not to get angry try to understand her and give your warmth and love to her hope u will get best thank you