I am having surgery next month but need to decide between two options. I have pelvic prolapse. My choices are Abdominal Sacrocolpopexy with syvocervical hysterectomy and possible anterior repair or Vaginal hysterectomy with anterior repair. I am very anxious and scared and I want to to do what is best for me with the least percentage of possible problems such as incontinence, infection, future surgery etc. I am 64 years old, have been healthy my entire life, am not overweight and have never smoked. I recently and suddenly lost my husband to a massive heart attack, and I need to continue to work . I will go to a pre-op appointment next week. any advice?