my partner is 59 years old and is menaporsal.its difficult to have sex because she says its to painfull.so as a result we are not sexually active.my partner has developed vaginal discharge for which she has seen a female doctor about.and was asked if she had changed partners recently.she was cross at the accusation.i am too asking the same question. am i jumping to conclusions.do i have the right to be suspicious.i think she has the most common bacteria,bacteria vaginosis (b.v.)