hi i am aardeep......wanma ask u that would my future life partner get to know that i am not virgin through my vagina as i had sexual relationships with my boyfriend more than five years ago..after break up i didnt do sex with anyone.....i used to do sex once in a month.....i did it 7-8 times.......now i m getting married i am really worried.......please help..........wt i should i do..........
Thu, 26 Jan 2012
General & Family Physician, Dr. P. Mahesh's Response
Hi aardeep,
Welcome to HCM.
Don't worry, most likely your going to be husband will not be able to find out that you had sex before. Hymen could be torn by sports activity, masturbation etc. More over you have had no intercourse for nearly 5 yrs., so your vagina will not be gaping and must have regained it's former tightness. So Don't worry and confidently get married and don't let guilty feeling interfere with your married life. The past is gone and we should not live in the past but be active in our present life and completely forget the past experiences which we do not want to remember. Wish you a very happy married life.
Hi,Aardeepji,
Thanks for query,
Your life partner may not know whether you had few times sex.
Vagina after some time will have normal elasticity and has its normal size and shape.
Unless you tell he wont have any idea about your past sex.
Remove tension and get prepared and good luck in advance.
ok and bye.
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Can My Partner Doubt My Virginity After Sex ?
Hi aardeep, Welcome to HCM. Don t worry, most likely your going to be husband will not be able to find out that you had sex before. Hymen could be torn by sports activity, masturbation etc. More over you have had no intercourse for nearly 5 yrs., so your vagina will not be gaping and must have regained it s former tightness. So Don t worry and confidently get married and don t let guilty feeling interfere with your married life. The past is gone and we should not live in the past but be active in our present life and completely forget the past experiences which we do not want to remember. Wish you a very happy married life.