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Hello
Thank you for your health concern.
Anorgasmia is a common side effect of most of the antipsychiatric drugs.
What you experienced is most probably due to the drugs taken for panic disorder.
If you have stopped them, please let me know when that happened, because you should recover your orgasmic ability within a month of stopping them.
Other than that - the following can be tried -
1. Sexual behaviour modification - working on your body, knowing how orgasms work, which part of your anatomy when stimulated works best for you ( did you have proper orgasms earlier ? ), partner therapy and prolonged foreplay and proper sexual stimulation. Initially
masturbation, self stimulation or vibrator use might make you more receptive to orgasms after actual intercourse. You can also initially use a vibrator or your hands to stimulate your
clitoris during intercourse
2. Couple
counselling and
sex therapy with an experienced therapist will help you know more amenable sex positions, where clitoral stimulation is optimal. IF there are no taboos, oral clitoral stimulation can be performed to help you achieve orgasms more easily. Also , ' sensate focus ' therapy where couples are taught to touch the ' trigger ' points for each other will be a great help for you.
3.
Estrogen patches or creams can be used to increase genital blood flow and provide more vascularity for orgasms.
HOwever, as your condition is drug induced, I feel that with stoppage of the offending ( causative ) drugs, and proper couple efforts, you would gradually be able to get back your orgasms.
All the best.
Please feel free to ask for further clarifications.