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Can STD Be Contracted Through Non-penetrative Sexual Activity?
Question: Hi Dr. About 6 days go I visited a massage palor in NYC and can't stop the worry about contracting an STD and searching the internet. The masseuse gave me a handjob and used her own saliva while masterbating me. There was NO penis to lips contact. She did however rub her vigina against the shaft of my penis but there was no penetration or sex. I used my fingers to play with her and possibly licked the upper part of her butt cheeks. I'm so terrified I may have caught herpies of something else. My body feels like it is on fire from all these racing thoughts from anxiety. I have no visible signs of anything buy only extremely worry. Please help me put my mind at ease. the massage ended after 30 minutes rubbing alcohol was used to clean everything. I got a table shower next but she did use a bar of soap.
Brief Answer:
There is no need to worry!
Detailed Answer:
Hi and thank you so much for this query.
I am so sorry to hear about this experience and all the racing disturbing thoughts that you have. I have reviewed this information fully and it will be extremely unlikely that you contract any disease from this experience. All the steps and acts carried out pose very minimal and negligible risk to possible transmission of any STD. Be relaxed and know that all is why. Forget all these disturbing thoughts.
I hope this helps. I wish you well. Feel free to ask for more information and clarifications if need be.
There is no need to worry!
Detailed Answer:
Hi and thank you so much for this query.
I am so sorry to hear about this experience and all the racing disturbing thoughts that you have. I have reviewed this information fully and it will be extremely unlikely that you contract any disease from this experience. All the steps and acts carried out pose very minimal and negligible risk to possible transmission of any STD. Be relaxed and know that all is why. Forget all these disturbing thoughts.
I hope this helps. I wish you well. Feel free to ask for more information and clarifications if need be.
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
Thank you for your prompt response Dr. Why then am I constantly feeling a tingeling sensation on m ypenis ans lips? Is this most likely GUILT and Fear? Is it okay to have sex with my wife? I'm besides myself. Why do stressed out people make such rash decisions without thinking ho much they are going to hurt the ones they love the most? This wasn't about sex it was about trying to escape my problems and in return its killing me.
Brief Answer:
Yes, you can ahve sex with your wife!
Detailed Answer:
Hi,
It is okay. There is minimal infection risk and there is no reason beating yourself. Be calm and wave this aside as all is well.
I wish you well.
Yes, you can ahve sex with your wife!
Detailed Answer:
Hi,
It is okay. There is minimal infection risk and there is no reason beating yourself. Be calm and wave this aside as all is well.
I wish you well.
Note: Consult a Sexual Diseases Specialist online for further follow up- Click here.
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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