Question: Im 34 m, married. I had unprotected oral sex (BJ) from a CSW in Kuala lumpur 4 days back. Apart from this I did not have sexual intercourse with her either vaginal or anal. I have french kissed her for 5 mins and sucked nipples for 2 mins (No secretions came out). For briefly 30 seconds, I touched her clitoris with my right middle finger (Without cuts). Later she gave me a hand job and I ejaculated on my belly, later wiped it with a clean cloth. Can I get HIV from Oral blow job? I have not seen any blood in her mouth or vaginal fluid near me as the vagina was far away from my body. I consulted 3 doctors in Kl, all of them said, dont worry, ur anxious, Oral BJ will not transmit HIV. I also had one counseling session where I described the same and they too are of the opinion that I do not even need testing. Please clarify if I may get HIV? I am very much annoyed and not sleeping.

Thanks Doctor,
I could not control my anxiety, I went to the lab and gave blood for HIV some western blot the doctor said. I also gave the urine sample. He also assured me that it will come negative don't worry. He said rna pcr is not necessary now.

My main fear is if the. prostitute is hiv positive and she sucks my cock for 5 mins , nothing will transmit. I am clear about my penis thabt it is uncircumcised, not having any scars, wounds etc, I cross checked it with an STD specialist who has checked my penis last week.

Please with your experience tell me I will not catch hiv with this act now.or in future?

I also consulted with a Doctor dried of.mine in XXXXXXX who also said that bj will not cause HIV.

Also if the prostitute has some scars or sti in her mouth, can it transmit to me. If so, those sti can influence the hiv transmission? This was said by one more doctor?


One doctor told me that if the report comes negative, it's conclusive. The other told me, u can recheck after one month. Suppose if I get it as negative, is there a possibility it can turn positive in a months time?

Hello Doctor,
I just got my report, this is 10 days after exposure. Hiv and syphilis, gonorrhoea, chlamydia, herpes 1 and 2 are non reactive. I did not meet the doctor yet.
But still I have a doubt that it becomes positive by month end. Please tell me doctor, I just received the bj from her, can this lead to hiv? I am really worried. If I choose rna pcr now, its 11 days, will get the results.