Hello, I have an embarrassing question. There are a few different instances that lead to my symptoms. Anyway, if I wear snug fitting jeans, or after intercourse with my husband, or when I masturbate. I notice considerably that my urethra opening is very painful and sensitive. To the point where it is painful to urinate and very painful to be intimate. It feels raw, is red and looks inflamed. And I don't have a uti at the time.