Hi, I slept with a new partner 2 weeks ago. Although we used a condom, we did initially play a little without protection and my penis was inside him. After 5 days I had really bad fever, shivering uncontrollably, chattering teeth and headache, and aches all over. I slept for 20 hours and recovered more or less the next day. My partner got the same symptoms about the same time but much worse and for around 5 - 6 days. Although he dindt have shiverring or chattering teeth. That weekend we had been out all day on the river with th ebike so I thought it was maybe that. But now I m worried I have HIV. I don t know his history but I imagine he is careful. But I id have sex with someone 4 months ago that I later found out is ppositive. We used a condom, but again played for a few seconds without. I m terrified I have it and also that I have passed it on. But surely we wouldn t get the same symptoms atthe ame time like that? This is wahats making me thing we contracted something different atthe same time. I will get a test of course bu t I am at my wits end with worry. My partner went to hospital and got tests (white blood cell count came back normal) and they couldn t explain it. What do you think?