Hello, I am a 24 year old female. 5'7" at 215 lbs. My husband and I have been together for 5 years and we just recently got married. About 4 years ago, I had a miscarriage at 5 weeks and my husband was so devastated that he wanted to refrain from sexual intercourse. Last year, I lost 40 lbs over the course of the whole year, and we had just started having sexual intercourse again two weeks ago. A couple of days after having intercourse I started spotting and it got up to a medium flow for two days before stopping. The intercourse was not painful after having been so long, and I would think the bleeding would have been heavier. My period (if it was my period) was 4 days early and lasted only 3 total days with mostly spotting. My cycle's are always 28 days with 4 days of heavy flow and have been for 8 years. Four days ago we had intercourse again, but it was very painful when he was entering and we stopped just a couple of minutes later. For the next two days after that, it would hurt when I wiped but not when I was urinating or anything. My question is why was it so painful the second time and could it possibly be something serious? And wouldn't bleeding be heavy after abstaining for so long combined with the (possible) period. If it wasn't a period then it is 38 days into my cycle without a period.