i'm not a doctor. but I guess having herpes/HIV/HPV
is not the end of the world. I'm living with HIV positive for 2 years. I was upset at the beginning.
support site Positivemate.com helps me find useful, up-to-date information for cure...i ask the live std conselor there and usually get answer in mins. he's patient and knowledgeable, and can solve almost those questions..hope it helps.