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Hi I am 53 years old , my husband is 56 years old we have been married for 35 years . He has always had a less sex libido than I ,but for the last 3 years our sex life is diminishing to nothing. This has caused awkwardness and distance in our relationship . Since we own our own businesses my husband is a workaholic , which means he works 7 days a week for about 10 to 14 hours per day and when not working he sleeps on the sofa . This I find frustrating since I work 12 hours 5 days a week but I take the weekends off to try and spend them with him to keep our marriage from also diminishing . He used to be and still is a gentle caring man but he does not express it any more in touching, caressing or kissing . He does tell me he loves me every day.I need help it has been 6 months since we have had sex and that was very disappointing . What can I do?
Here i want to aware you that sometimes it happens that you are busy and not giving important to sex life.
But its totally wrong, because you are not thinking of that but for your partner you have to do that.
So, i will suggest you that talk with him gently and take a new and refresh start to your sex life.
Sometimes what happens that when partner not responding than women/men go for other person, but glad to know that you are waiting from last six months.
So, be free yourself while he free and do some romance first definitely he will go for what you want.
If it not works than would like to suggest to concern your husband to psychiatrist for better result.
Hope you will find it helpful,
Thanks & Regards, Dr. Gaurav Prajapati
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Suggest Remedy For Decreased Sex Libido
Hello, Thank you for writing us, Here i want to aware you that sometimes it happens that you are busy and not giving important to sex life. But its totally wrong, because you are not thinking of that but for your partner you have to do that. So, i will suggest you that talk with him gently and take a new and refresh start to your sex life. Sometimes what happens that when partner not responding than women/men go for other person, but glad to know that you are waiting from last six months. So, be free yourself while he free and do some romance first definitely he will go for what you want. If it not works than would like to suggest to concern your husband to psychiatrist for better result. Hope you will find it helpful, Thanks & Regards, Dr. Gaurav Prajapati