Hallow Dear,
You seem to have some misconception about the women's secretions during sex.
When men ejaculate, it is the end of their sexual play and orgasm. In women, it is exactly the reverse, when woman gets sexually excited, it is reflected by two aspects, firstly, the
clitoris gets erected (like penile erection in man) and secondly, she starts secreting copiously. So what you think as
female ejaculation is increase in secretions which is natures arrangement for easy entry of the penis into the vagina by creating this lubrication. That is why you are getting these secretions when you are getting excited when your husband plays with your private parts.
So madam, this point is not the end of your sexual act, in fact it is the starting point of your sexual excitement. So please do not get nervous due to the secretions, start the sex more vigorously from that point onwards.
Wishing you a happy and romantic sexual life.
Dr. Nishikant Shrotri