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How To Maintain Erection Throughout The Sex?

Hello, I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months and we recently (as of a few months) have been considering having sex. It will be his first time yet not mine. We have good forplay yet when it comes to him putting on the condom he completely loses his erection. I have tried everythings to help him regain it including oral sex, yet nothing seems to work. I can tell he is embarased about it, yet i cannot find a way to approach the topic. It is starting to blow my self esteem as it makes me feel that i am not attractive enough for him, and that i cannot please him sexually. Is there any way to approach the topic without embarasement? Is there any way other than viagra, to help him maintain his erection throughout sex?

Regards, Shannon
Tue, 15 Sep 2020
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Hi,

First of all: it is NOT your fault. Many men have this issue, unfortunately. The problem is that stress is the most effective erection “killer” that exists. It sounds as if your partner is trapped in such a vicious circle. Now, what can be done: reducing stress is easier said than done. Maybe Viagra (the real one), given for a short period of time, can help him break out of this vicious circle. If he has a GP he should mention this issue there and ask his GP for help. But his GP will help him, why shouldn’t he?

Take care. Hope I have answered your question. Let me know if I can assist you further.

Regards,
Dr. Alexander Davis, General & Family Physician
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How To Maintain Erection Throughout The Sex?

Hi, First of all: it is NOT your fault. Many men have this issue, unfortunately. The problem is that stress is the most effective erection “killer” that exists. It sounds as if your partner is trapped in such a vicious circle. Now, what can be done: reducing stress is easier said than done. Maybe Viagra (the real one), given for a short period of time, can help him break out of this vicious circle. If he has a GP he should mention this issue there and ask his GP for help. But his GP will help him, why shouldn’t he? Take care. Hope I have answered your question. Let me know if I can assist you further. Regards, Dr. Alexander Davis, General & Family Physician