Hi and thanks for the query, The first thing to do is actually making a proper diagnosis of infertility. You have to be living with your husband for at least one year, having unprotected sex at least thrice to week. It s important. The cause of infertility could be from the female, male or at times unexplained. The first consultation usually should be with you and your husband for a initial battery of tests to be done. These usually range from screening of sexually transmitted infections, hormonal abnormalities, malformations, spermograms an d temperature monitoring in the female to ascertain effectiveness of ovulation. I strongly suggest you and your husband consult an infertility specialist/experienced gynecologist. Thanks and hope this helps, Bain LE, MD.