Hi Mr.Vishal,
Thanks for posting in HCM.
I understand your concern.
Based on the description, it appears that your problem associated with getting proper erection is more of psychological problem than physical one.
You need to develop more confidence by practising
behavioral therapy like 'pauze and squeeze' technique regularly along with
pelvic floor exercises.
Also, take in your diet milk, papaya, almonds, dates, saffron and honey, which are known to improve blood supply to the penis.
You can take Tablet. Tadalafil to get proper erection when necessary.
Control anxiety by practising
meditation regularly.
To prevent ejaculation happening prematurely, you can use topical anesthetics namely lidocaine or lidocaine-prilocaine creams, which would cause reduction in sensation.
Use of certain medications namely selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) such as escitalopram or
fluoxetine are used to help delay ejaculation.
You need not worry much about this problem as it would not affect your sexual function or
fertility after marriage or later in life. Gradually, you should gain confidence and overcome this problem.
Hope the information provided would be helpful.
All the best.