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Could There Be Pain In Testicles Due To Lack Of Sex?
I AM TRYING TO HELP MY DAUGHTER...SHE IS MARRIED TO A MAN THAT IS VERY CONTROLING AND HE LIKES A LOT OF SEX OFTEN...SHE HAS BEEN ILL AND IS UNDERGOING TREATMENT AT PRESENT AND HAS TOLD HIM SHE DOESNT FEEL UP TO IT....HE KEEPS PRESSING HER AND IT HAS BEEN 2 WEEKS NOW...SO YESTERDAY HE CAME HOME IN A BAD MOOD AND SHE ASKED HIM WHA WAS WRONG AND HE REPLIED HE JUST DIDNT FEEL GOOD...SO SHE ASKED HIM WHY AND HE SAID WELL IF YOU REALLY WANT TO KNOW I AM IN PAIN...SHE ASKED HIM WHERE AND HE TOLD HER THE PAIN WAS IN HIS TESTICLES FROM A LACK OF SEX..SO SHE FELT GUILTY AND TOOK CARE OF HIM..BUT OTHER THINGS ARE GOING ON AS WELL AND SHE TALKS TO ME..I TOLD HER HE HAD ALREADY GOTTEN HIS WAY BECAUSE PHYSICAL PAIN FROM A LACK OF SEX DOES NOT HAPPEN LIKE THAT IN THE TESTICLES..I TOLD HER HIS INTENT WAS TO MAKE HER FEEL GUILTY AND IT WORKED..PLEASE TELL ME IF I WAS RIGHT SO I CAN PASS IT ON TO HER..AM I RIGHT ..THANK YOU
Wed, 28 Jan 2015
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No, you are absolutely wrong and this would surely ruin your daughter's married life. If you want to help her, stop telling her when her husband should have sex with her. Also discourage her to talk to ypu regarding his intimate life. It may or may not produce pain in testicles but surely hurt somebody's self esteem .Encourage her to talk to him and if needed, take the advice from a sexologist.
DR SAATIISH JHUNTRRAA
No, you are absolutely wrong and this would surely ruin your daughter's married life. If you want to help her, stop telling her when her husband should have sex with her. Also discourage her to talk to ypu regarding his intimate life. It may or may not produce pain in testicles but surely hurt somebody's self esteem .Encourage her to talk to him and if needed, take the advice from a sexologist.
DR SAATIISH JHUNTRRAA
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Hello sir and welcome.
I understand your concern and it does appear as though your daughter's husband is manipulating his way into gaining sexual favours from your daughter, but I shall choose to rephrase this sentence and would like you to read it again: "A man has non-violently but very cunningly tried to manipulate his way into gaining sexual favours from his wife". In my opinion, almost all men do so. It is certainly wrong, but still better than using force or approaching women outside his marriage to satisfy his needs.
The only difference being that your daughter may not be entirely sexually attracted to her husband, or possibly because this could be an arranged marriage, or even because his approach has begun to put her off.
While I would certainly advice sexual therapy to the couple so that they both understand each others needs, I would also like to politely request you to take a step back from their sexual life. It may not be entirely correct to get yourself involved in such things.
From my experience, I have noticed numerous such examples wherein parents get involved in their child's sex life, and complicate things. No matter what happens between them sexually, it will always remain awkward for you. So please do give it and some though.
Hope this helps.
Best wishes.
I understand your concern and it does appear as though your daughter's husband is manipulating his way into gaining sexual favours from your daughter, but I shall choose to rephrase this sentence and would like you to read it again: "A man has non-violently but very cunningly tried to manipulate his way into gaining sexual favours from his wife". In my opinion, almost all men do so. It is certainly wrong, but still better than using force or approaching women outside his marriage to satisfy his needs.
The only difference being that your daughter may not be entirely sexually attracted to her husband, or possibly because this could be an arranged marriage, or even because his approach has begun to put her off.
While I would certainly advice sexual therapy to the couple so that they both understand each others needs, I would also like to politely request you to take a step back from their sexual life. It may not be entirely correct to get yourself involved in such things.
From my experience, I have noticed numerous such examples wherein parents get involved in their child's sex life, and complicate things. No matter what happens between them sexually, it will always remain awkward for you. So please do give it and some though.
Hope this helps.
Best wishes.
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