i have not been able to sleep, eat or work properly because i can't stop thinking about this, please somebody tell me if i was at risk of getting infected!!!! this is what happened: i was at a gay sauna last week and this guy and me started playing around rubbing our penises together with no condom (i am circumcised but he wasn't) then he got on top of me and started "humping me" but there was no anal penetration or anything like that, 3 min into the whole thing i ejaculated. my two concerns are this, 1) could i have been at risk when we rubbed our penises together? 2) after i ejaculated and if somehow my urethra touched his urethra since i was lying underneath him, could i be at risk of getting infected of hiv like that? please somebody help me i am so scared!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!