hi! i am a 38 year old female. i am having several issues that might be related to 1 thing but i'm not for sure.ii lost my job 8 months ago. for the past 6 months i have gained 45 pounds. i dont see how this is because i barely feel like eating and if i do it is maybe once a day. i have no energy at all,i do how ever take a womans vitamin once a day. my blood pressure has been running from 160/111-139/89. i am so sluggish that when i start doing something i get out of breathe fast(i have never smoked) and when i feel like i'm going to pass out. i don't sleep well at all,and i am forgeting things and i feel really confused sometimes. i get frequant nose bleeds sometimes it will happen while i'm trying to sleep.my monthly cycle has been way off as well.my periods have last a whole month going non stop. i had my tubes tied 6 years ago after the birth of my last child. i have never felt like this before. I have 6 kids and i have always been very active. my normal weight has been 140;now it has been 196. please tell me what do you think is wrong with me.