Question: I been having weak orgasm problem for more than 2 years now. I been to 3 different urologists and they all don't know what's wrong with me. Whenever I masturbate and have an orgasm, the orgasm isn't strong anymore and does not bring me that much pleasure. Also, my orgasms don't last that long and are not intense like they used to be. I been feeling really sad and sexually frustrated about this for the past year because it is a chronic condition that would not go away on its own. At the same time my weak orgasm problem arise, I also began experiencing urinary symptoms. Every time I urinate, only a little bit comes out. And the urinary stream seems weak and only comes out a little bit. I remember before I had this problem, my urinary stream was normal and it came out a lot at once. But now every time I urinate, it only comes out a little bit. For my urinary stream to come out a lot, I have to hold in my pee for a while and wait for it to come out a lot. But if I urinate every time I feel like it, it only comes out a little bit. I believe my weak orgasm problem and my urinary problem are connected to each other because I started experiencing both those problems at the same time. I been to 3 urologists and they do not know what's wrong. The reason I have these problems are because I think it has to do with me having anal sex. I remember the night I had anal, my partner did it really rough and I got injured and now I think that is why my orgasms are weaker, shorter, and less pleasurable and my urinary flow only comes out a little bit. What do you think I might have damaged from doing anal that caused my orgasms to become weaker? My prostate? Or sphincter muscles? I really need an answer and a cure right now, please help me. I cannot live with this problem anymore.

I am frustrated because i cannot feel any sexual release after i have an orgasm. my orgasm is just not good as it used to be. Back then, my orgasm felt really good and I felt pleasurable. Now after I did anal sex, my orgasm changed and now when I orgasm it just feels like a "sneeze" with a slight relief and that's it. And I was the recipient for anal. I notice my orgasm problem is correlated to my urinary problem. It probably has to do with my prostate. Do you think I have damaged the nerves on my prostate? Prostate is a gland responsible for the feeling of orgasm right? Or is that my sphincter muscles? Also, I do have an urge whenever I do masturbation. I have strong urges but every time I orgasm, it just don't feel the same anymore. Also, I think my sphincter muscles got really weak from having anal because every time I have a bowel movement, most or all of the feces come out at once after just one push. Could that be related to my weak orgasm? (because of the sphincter muscle got weaker?" I really need to find an answer and cure.

You don't understand me. My orgasm are a lot weaker than before, and it is because I did anal sex. My orgasm used to be strong and I could feel the amazing throbbing feeling. But after I did anal, I don't get the amazing throbbing feeling anymore when I orgasm. It is just a weak sneeze now. Also, I like women too. Every time I have sex with a woman and I reach orgasm, the orgasm doesn't feel the same. It feels really weak and doesn't allow me to feel that much pleasure. I think I may have damaged the organs that are responsible for strong orgasms because I had anal. I may have damaged my prostate, sphincter muscles, the muscles in my penis, etc. Please you have to help me find a cure, I don't want to live with this problem anymore. All the urologists I went to cannot find the diagnosis either. My prostate is a little bit enlarged from the last urologist visit. Can an enlarged prostate decrease the sensation of orgasm?? What possible causes/diagnoses can decrease the sensation of orgasm? Also, the kegel exercises you told me about, would that cure my weak orgasm for good? Do i have to keep doing kegal exercises to maintain strong orgasms?