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What Causes Loss Of Libido In A Hypertensive Person?
Question: im a 34 year old female married for the past 10 years. having two kids; one son aged 8 and daughter aged 4. my problem is that I have an urge to get in bed with my husband every night while as he says he cannot feel the same every night. presently we share the bed just once a week and that too when I initiate; but he satisfies me to my fullest. I have an orgasm thrice in each of his ejaculation.Presently we both are on thyronorm 150mg but in control. I love my family a lot. all I want is to have any medicine either to finish my urge once for all or a medicine that increases his urge so that he satisfies me.plz help. both of us are faithful and wants to be failthful till the end. hes on anti hypertensive medication also. plz help.
Brief Answer:
Lifestyle changes for spouse. Non penetrative pleasuring,orgasm is possible
Detailed Answer:
Hi
Bisma Najeeb,
Dr. Purushottam welcomes you to HCM virtual clinic!
Thanks for consulting at my virtual clinic. I have carefully gone through your query, and I think I have understood your concern. I will try to address your medical concerns and would suggest you the best of the available treatment options.
1. First of all do not panic.
2.I would like to thank you for freely expressing your thoughts and emotions on this delicate subject in very proper and XXXXXXX words.
Secondly, there is nothing wrong in having desire or urge to have sex or orgasm more frequently as compared to your spouse.
3. There is no such medicine to reduce your urge.
But your husband can opt for a healthy lifestyle. He can Opt for a healthy diet and regular exercise so that he will be in a position to increase his libido.
4. If he does not want penetrative sex when you have urge for sex, then you can get satisfaction from clitoral pleasuring even to the level of orgasm.
please feel free to communicate if you have any further queries.
I hope this answer was helpful to you!
Please kindly rate it as helpful and write a short review about your experience with me! I would appreciate that a lot.
Thank you and best regards!
Dr Purushottam S Neurgaonkar
Lifestyle changes for spouse. Non penetrative pleasuring,orgasm is possible
Detailed Answer:
Hi
Bisma Najeeb,
Dr. Purushottam welcomes you to HCM virtual clinic!
Thanks for consulting at my virtual clinic. I have carefully gone through your query, and I think I have understood your concern. I will try to address your medical concerns and would suggest you the best of the available treatment options.
1. First of all do not panic.
2.I would like to thank you for freely expressing your thoughts and emotions on this delicate subject in very proper and XXXXXXX words.
Secondly, there is nothing wrong in having desire or urge to have sex or orgasm more frequently as compared to your spouse.
3. There is no such medicine to reduce your urge.
But your husband can opt for a healthy lifestyle. He can Opt for a healthy diet and regular exercise so that he will be in a position to increase his libido.
4. If he does not want penetrative sex when you have urge for sex, then you can get satisfaction from clitoral pleasuring even to the level of orgasm.
please feel free to communicate if you have any further queries.
I hope this answer was helpful to you!
Please kindly rate it as helpful and write a short review about your experience with me! I would appreciate that a lot.
Thank you and best regards!
Dr Purushottam S Neurgaonkar
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Kampana
i dont get satistified with non penetrative methods. i might have some disease kind of. can u suggest any medicine for a man to heighten his urges? plz help. u said earlier theres no such a medicine then plz suggest what to do.
Brief Answer:
Lifestyle changes. supplements. more foreplay.
Detailed Answer:
Hi there,
Thanks for appreciating the answer and reverting back. As you have mentioned that you need to have penetrative sex act, to satisfy your urge, I will suggest that we should focus on increasing your partner's desire.
I will suggest that he should opt for regular exercise regimen and a healthy diet. Avoid deep fried foods, bakery products and refined sugars. Avoid substance abuse if any. Drink plenty of water in the day.
Start on multi vitamin and multi mineral supplements. With this his medical problems will also get controlled and will help him out to increase his libido.
I will suggest to both of you to indulge and spend more time in foreplay, meaning increasing the time of do replay and partner pleasuring by 3 to 5 minutes than what you are indulging now.
Be relaxed.
Try to have a soothing conditions in the room.
Most importantly, body and mind of both the partners should be fresh while having sex act don't be fatigued and exerted when you plan to have sex.
Be patient.
Everything will be fine in the due course of time.
Wish you all the best.
I hope this answer helps you. Thanks
Dr Purushottam Neurgaonkar.
Lifestyle changes. supplements. more foreplay.
Detailed Answer:
Hi there,
Thanks for appreciating the answer and reverting back. As you have mentioned that you need to have penetrative sex act, to satisfy your urge, I will suggest that we should focus on increasing your partner's desire.
I will suggest that he should opt for regular exercise regimen and a healthy diet. Avoid deep fried foods, bakery products and refined sugars. Avoid substance abuse if any. Drink plenty of water in the day.
Start on multi vitamin and multi mineral supplements. With this his medical problems will also get controlled and will help him out to increase his libido.
I will suggest to both of you to indulge and spend more time in foreplay, meaning increasing the time of do replay and partner pleasuring by 3 to 5 minutes than what you are indulging now.
Be relaxed.
Try to have a soothing conditions in the room.
Most importantly, body and mind of both the partners should be fresh while having sex act don't be fatigued and exerted when you plan to have sex.
Be patient.
Everything will be fine in the due course of time.
Wish you all the best.
I hope this answer helps you. Thanks
Dr Purushottam Neurgaonkar.
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Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Remy Koshy
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