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What Causes Chlamydia Infection?
Question: I have been in a long distance relationship for about 15 months. Because we don't see each other regularly, we've only had intercourse a few times when she has come to visit. After her last visit she was diagnosed with Chlamydia, and consequently has stated that I must have had sex withsomeone between visits(which I have not). Is it possible that if one or the other of us had the infection prior to our relationship that it's just surfacing now? Any help would be appreciated, as this has caused her to want to break up.
Brief Answer:
How to win her back and get exactly what you want.
Detailed Answer:
Dear XXXXXXX
I'll help you out in this rather tricky situation.
1.Since it's a long distance relationship, we want both people to win, we want both you and your partner to get what they want and have it too. This makes sense doesn't it.
2.You wish to be with your partner for as long as possible, maybe not forever, but there is a desire to do this, else you would have never written this query in the first place.
3. *Chlamydia is an infection that can be cured easily.* It is highly infective. Now that your partner has been diagnosed with it, you need to take your precautions so that you do not get it.
4. Genital warts and Herpes cannot be cured and once you catch them they keep on reappearing, it's embarrassing, and problematic.
5. AIDS cannot be cured.
MOST IMPORTANT.
PRINT THIS OUT IF NECESSARY AND SHOW IT TO HER.
YOU DO NOT NEED TO HAVE SEX OR EVEN INTIMATE KISSING WITH ANYONE TO GET CHLAMYDIA. WHEN MEDICAL SCIENTISTS SEARCH FOR BETTER DRUGS AND MEDICINES TO CURE CHLAMYDIA, THEY INFECT RABBITS, MICE AND GUINEA PIGS WITH CHLAMYDIA. PLEASE EXPLAIN TO ME, DO THESE SCIENTISTS SPEND HOURS GETTING A MALE MOUSE AND A FEMALE MOUSE IN CAGE, TO IM EACH OTHER, FACEBOOK EACH OTHER, GO STEADY WITH EACH OTHER, HAVE SEX WITH EACH OTHER, SO THAT THEY CAN STUDY HOW ONCE THEY CAUGHT THE 'BUG, THEY CAN GIVE THEM MEDICINES TO CURE THEM?
CHLAMYDIA CAN BE TRANSMITTED WITHOUT ANY SEXUAL CONTACT.
IF SOMEONE STEALS YOUR SHORTS, AND HAS THE 'BUG AND SAY IN A HYPOTHETICAL SITUATION YOU GET YOUR SHORTS BACK, AND WEAR THEM, YOU CAN GET THE 'BUG.
JUST BECAUSE IT'S EASIER TO GET CHLAMYDIA THROUGH SEX. LET US PORTRAY THIS: WOULD YOU NOT SAY IT'S EASIER TO DIE RUNNING BLINDFOLDED ON A HIGH SPEED HIGHWAY, THAN SITTING BLINDFOLDED IN YOUR LIVING ROOM, FOR THE SAME DURATION OF TIME?
Some personal advice,
Wisen up. Be vigilante. Assert yourself. Maybe there's someone else in the woman's life.
Feel free for more advise on this matter. What I'm giving you is called Interventional Psychotherapy.
You might want to google "How to keep your girlfriend in check"
Regards,
Dr. Neel Kudchadkar
How to win her back and get exactly what you want.
Detailed Answer:
Dear XXXXXXX
I'll help you out in this rather tricky situation.
1.Since it's a long distance relationship, we want both people to win, we want both you and your partner to get what they want and have it too. This makes sense doesn't it.
2.You wish to be with your partner for as long as possible, maybe not forever, but there is a desire to do this, else you would have never written this query in the first place.
3. *Chlamydia is an infection that can be cured easily.* It is highly infective. Now that your partner has been diagnosed with it, you need to take your precautions so that you do not get it.
4. Genital warts and Herpes cannot be cured and once you catch them they keep on reappearing, it's embarrassing, and problematic.
5. AIDS cannot be cured.
MOST IMPORTANT.
PRINT THIS OUT IF NECESSARY AND SHOW IT TO HER.
YOU DO NOT NEED TO HAVE SEX OR EVEN INTIMATE KISSING WITH ANYONE TO GET CHLAMYDIA. WHEN MEDICAL SCIENTISTS SEARCH FOR BETTER DRUGS AND MEDICINES TO CURE CHLAMYDIA, THEY INFECT RABBITS, MICE AND GUINEA PIGS WITH CHLAMYDIA. PLEASE EXPLAIN TO ME, DO THESE SCIENTISTS SPEND HOURS GETTING A MALE MOUSE AND A FEMALE MOUSE IN CAGE, TO IM EACH OTHER, FACEBOOK EACH OTHER, GO STEADY WITH EACH OTHER, HAVE SEX WITH EACH OTHER, SO THAT THEY CAN STUDY HOW ONCE THEY CAUGHT THE 'BUG, THEY CAN GIVE THEM MEDICINES TO CURE THEM?
CHLAMYDIA CAN BE TRANSMITTED WITHOUT ANY SEXUAL CONTACT.
IF SOMEONE STEALS YOUR SHORTS, AND HAS THE 'BUG AND SAY IN A HYPOTHETICAL SITUATION YOU GET YOUR SHORTS BACK, AND WEAR THEM, YOU CAN GET THE 'BUG.
JUST BECAUSE IT'S EASIER TO GET CHLAMYDIA THROUGH SEX. LET US PORTRAY THIS: WOULD YOU NOT SAY IT'S EASIER TO DIE RUNNING BLINDFOLDED ON A HIGH SPEED HIGHWAY, THAN SITTING BLINDFOLDED IN YOUR LIVING ROOM, FOR THE SAME DURATION OF TIME?
Some personal advice,
Wisen up. Be vigilante. Assert yourself. Maybe there's someone else in the woman's life.
Feel free for more advise on this matter. What I'm giving you is called Interventional Psychotherapy.
You might want to google "How to keep your girlfriend in check"
Regards,
Dr. Neel Kudchadkar
Note: Consult a Sexual Diseases Specialist online for further follow up- Click here.
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Dr. Vaishalee Punj
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