Brief Answer:
It is called premature ejaculation and treatable

Detailed Answer:

Hello,

Regarding the problem, I would like to inform you that it is premature ejaculation and completely treatable.

It can be treated or controlled with the help of behavioral methods and the medications. The behavioral techniques need to be practiced during sex and yield results over a time. Even your partner can assist you in some of the techniques like squeeze technique.

The techniques are difficult to explain here but you can just google 'kegel method' to understand it. For good results it is recommended to have 100 contractions per day which can be divided in three to four times a day as per your convenience. I recommend you to start with contractions of few seconds and than slowly increase the duration of each contraction.

The other techniques are:
1. Squeeze technique
2. Start - stop method
3. Interruption technique
You can choose any of them if they suit you.

Premature ejaculation can also be controlled by medications.

SSRI antidepressant drugs cause delayed ejaculation as a side effect, and this side effect is used therapeutically in the treatment of premature ejaculation. These drugs are as following:
Tablet. Paroxetine [Paxil 12.5 mg] at night or
Tablet. Fluoxetine [Prozac 20 mg] in the morning after the breakfast or Tablet. Sertraline [Zoloft 50 mg] at night.

A person with premature ejaculation need to take any of these drugs regularly and its effect will appear only after 15 to 20 days.

Another strategy is to take drug one hour before sex. The another antidepressant drug Dapoxetine [Sustinex 30 mg] is given one hour before sex and it cause delayed ejaculation and helps in premature ejaculation. This is better option if you have sex frequency of three or less per week.

I hope this answers your question.

Thank you.

Regards,
Dr. Ashok Kumar
Psychiatrist

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