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Question: Been married for a long time but still canot have sex.cannot maintain erection while entering my wifes vagaina. Can insert 1 finger inside her vagaina easily.can enter 2 bit with very difficulty. I loose my erection while tryin to enter her vagaina and sometimes i pre cum.have tried tadafill also
Brief Answer:
Please provide more details
Detailed Answer:
Hello,
Thanks for using Healthcaremagic..
Before we can make any conclusions I request you to provide following details so an impression can be made about the cause of problem.
1. How long you are facing this problem (erection) ? Whether it was present before marriage or with wife only?
2. How the problem started whether it was sudden in onset or build up slowly over the months or years?
3. Frequency of the problem in a week/month ? Are you able to have some successful sexual intercourse?
4. In a typical month out of what number of sexual interactions/masturbations ?
5. What are the factors that increase the problem?
6. Factors that relieve the problem- thoughts, situations, partner, place etc
7. Do you get early morning erection?
8. If yes how frequent?
9. Your relationship status and partner details- Is she very critical, demands sex more than what can you think, does she feel superior to you or bothers you in some other regards
10. Effect on your relationship so far due to problem
11. Details of medical illness, if any
12. Medications you are receiving currently, if any including ayurvedic homeopathic or any other
13. Medication you received in past and their effect?
14. Do you have any psychiatric illness (like anxiety, depression, fear)?
15. Investigations done till date and reports of most latest investigations?
I must assure you that once we identify cause it will be easy to correct it.
I look forward to see more details.
Thanks and regards
Please provide more details
Detailed Answer:
Hello,
Thanks for using Healthcaremagic..
Before we can make any conclusions I request you to provide following details so an impression can be made about the cause of problem.
1. How long you are facing this problem (erection) ? Whether it was present before marriage or with wife only?
2. How the problem started whether it was sudden in onset or build up slowly over the months or years?
3. Frequency of the problem in a week/month ? Are you able to have some successful sexual intercourse?
4. In a typical month out of what number of sexual interactions/masturbations ?
5. What are the factors that increase the problem?
6. Factors that relieve the problem- thoughts, situations, partner, place etc
7. Do you get early morning erection?
8. If yes how frequent?
9. Your relationship status and partner details- Is she very critical, demands sex more than what can you think, does she feel superior to you or bothers you in some other regards
10. Effect on your relationship so far due to problem
11. Details of medical illness, if any
12. Medications you are receiving currently, if any including ayurvedic homeopathic or any other
13. Medication you received in past and their effect?
14. Do you have any psychiatric illness (like anxiety, depression, fear)?
15. Investigations done till date and reports of most latest investigations?
I must assure you that once we identify cause it will be easy to correct it.
I look forward to see more details.
Thanks and regards
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
1.didnt had any experience before marriage. Facing this problem after marriage I.e 4 years. Problem started after marriage when we tried to have sex. Cannot enter only. I masturbate 4-5 times a month.and my wife gives me a hand job 5 times.we have lots of oral sex (no bj)i get a mornin erection regularly.we just feel incomplete without sex.my partner does not demands sex. No medication received in the past.i feel its like its anxiety whenever i try to have sex i fear that i cannot enter and i loose erection.have been to few doctors all say it's psychological. But now I need a solution.
Brief Answer:
It is purely indicative of psychological erectile dysfunction
Detailed Answer:
Dear Karankkr,
Thanks for reverting back to me with details.
From the available details it is clear that problem is psychological and there is no indication of any organic pathology. This is evidenced by the normal regular morning erections and having good erections while masturbating.
I must assure you that psychological erectile dysfunction is completely treatable in expert hands. To move in that direction there is need of seeing a psychiatrist/sex therapist in person. I understand your effort to seek opinion but online queries can help you in understanding problem or for second opinion.
Considering all these facts I request you to see a psychiatrist in your city with your partner.
I hope this helps you.
Thanks and regards
It is purely indicative of psychological erectile dysfunction
Detailed Answer:
Dear Karankkr,
Thanks for reverting back to me with details.
From the available details it is clear that problem is psychological and there is no indication of any organic pathology. This is evidenced by the normal regular morning erections and having good erections while masturbating.
I must assure you that psychological erectile dysfunction is completely treatable in expert hands. To move in that direction there is need of seeing a psychiatrist/sex therapist in person. I understand your effort to seek opinion but online queries can help you in understanding problem or for second opinion.
Considering all these facts I request you to see a psychiatrist in your city with your partner.
I hope this helps you.
Thanks and regards
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
I can enter only 1 finger inside her vagaina. If i enter 2 it is with great difficulty and i have never entered 3 fingers. And also many times while trying i pre ejaculate when i am very erect. How can i prevent my pre ejaculation.
Brief Answer:
Pre mature ejaculation is secondary
Detailed Answer:
Hello,
Thanks for reverting back to me.
It is common for someone to discharge early when there is fear of something. In your case fear of losing erection is responsible for early discharge.
So it can be said that once primary condition is treated it will also will help in premature ejaculation.
Regarding inability to insert fingers I like to tell you that it needs proper lubrication and foreplay to insert anything whether finger or penis. So whenever you try give enough stimulation before touching her genitalia/vagina.
I hope this helps you.
Thanks and regards
Pre mature ejaculation is secondary
Detailed Answer:
Hello,
Thanks for reverting back to me.
It is common for someone to discharge early when there is fear of something. In your case fear of losing erection is responsible for early discharge.
So it can be said that once primary condition is treated it will also will help in premature ejaculation.
Regarding inability to insert fingers I like to tell you that it needs proper lubrication and foreplay to insert anything whether finger or penis. So whenever you try give enough stimulation before touching her genitalia/vagina.
I hope this helps you.
Thanks and regards
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Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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