Suggest treatment for ED, depression, premature ejaculation and night fall

Posted on Mon, 15 Jun 2015 in Sexual Health
Question: I am 24 years old and 70 kg weight. I was masturbating from 6-7 years. I have suffered from over masturbation. I feel very weak,depressed and anxiety.I have erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation and night fall problem also. My hair dropped out very rapidly.
Before four months ago some semen comes out from my pennis. Then my pennis does not errect correctly. Pennis stands sometimes for few minutes. My pennis bacame very small. Some black and red spot has also been seen on my pennis. The skin of pennis becomes very loose evetyday.
So what to do now. Which type of doctor I consult immediately
Answered by Dr. Chintan Solanki 1 hour later
Brief Answer:
You are suffering from psychosexual problem,consult psychiatrist

Detailed Answer:
Hello Mr. XXXX,

Thanks for writing to us.

There is nothing like over masturbation. I want to clarify some doubts about masturbation first.

Masturbation is natural and normal thing.It is done by 95% of the males in the world,mostly before marriage as well as when wife is away, in menses or pregnant after marriage. It is not at all harmful. Frequency of masturbation done by an individual varies from once a day to once a week. It depends upon individual libido, wish and timing. It neither causes any weakness nor any problem in future sexual activity.
When masturbation is compulsion and you need to do it at cost of your work then only it is problem.

Do masturbation when you desire and comfortable do so.

Advantages of masturbation:

- One can satisfy sexual desire in very safe manner when desire is there

- No chance of infection or STD

- Prevent Night fall and unwanted discharge

- In social context you can enjoy with privacy without harming anyone

- Helps in future sex life

In our society it is very prevalent belief that masturbation is harmful and causes loss of important nutrients. So many men like you stop the masturbation.

Since age of around 14 in boys sex organs become active and start producing semen. Semen production occurs daily then onwards. When someone stops masturbation there is excess storage of semen in seminal vesicles.When production rate of semen exceeds expulsion rate stored semen has to come out from seminal vesicles by any mean to provide space for newly produced semen.
So during urination, defecation, excitement and sleep this semen comes out with slight stimulation.
One time ejaculation of semen equals to only 0.5% of calorie of total daily food intake.So loss of semen is not at all causing weakness or any physical problem.

After age of 20male patterned baldness in common and hair loss occurs. Frontal hair line recedes in most of the men.Masturbation is not at all related to hair loss from scientific point of view.Daily loss of 50 hair is common and normal.

Masturbation does not affect size of penis also. Penis does not become small at this age, it is likely your apprehension and perception.

- Please upload photographs of black and red spots on penis. So I can give comment on that. Probably they are hair root follicle.

You have stopped masturbation.For erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation diagnosis exposure to sex is necessary.

- Do you have any experience of sex?Describe in detail with problem faced by you during sex.

- Are you married or exposure to sex with girlfriend?

- Describe your size of penis in flaccid and in erect state.

For all of your concern and problem you need to consult psychiatrist.

In conclusion you need not to worry, you probably do not have any physical problem. You will be fine with detail counseling.

Hope I have answered your query, I will be happy to help further.
Dr.Chintan Solanki.

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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