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Posted on Wed, 18 May 2016
Question: i am basically trying to keep my head above water. It is hard with so little money. I don't have enough good food to eat which is hard for me...I don't want to spend all of my go to Israel money but it is hard to live financially...my pain about XXXXXXX is still there but not as severe as usual because I am trying to stay off the streets....not sure how long I can do that....
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Answered by Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (4 minutes later)
Brief Answer:
Keep yourself busy

Detailed Answer:
Hello again

Try to find a job so that you get some money. Even the job at counselling can help you to get some money and will make you busy. You can try for that.

Memories related to XXXXXXX will fade with time and you will come out of the problems. Just keep yourself busy.

Thanks
Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Arnab Banerjee
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Follow up: Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (18 minutes later)
thank you Dr Bishnoi. I appreciate it. I hope I get the job at counseling because I need the money so very badly. I am sad about XXXXXXX but i also am tired of the stress and the lack of peace as a result of his thinking we are stalkers. i don't understand how he can think we would hurt him. But he does I guess...he seems to think all people are out to get him and wants to just be alone all the time wondering why he is lonely. i hope I can forget him and wish my son would stop saying he is coming back to me...he and XXXX both believe he is coming back but now i don't want him back....that doesn't mean that I don't love him just that I am tired of having this sadness...


i am feeling suicidal again because I am so lonely for XXXXXXX XXXX picks fights with me all the time and I miss the good times i had with XXXXXXX and dont know that I will find a job. I want to take XXXXXXX and move away from here so badly but the car might take all my money for Israel now. I am really sad again stuck here with XXXXXXX and XXXX on my back.


Do you think I could email XXXXXXX or would that be a bad idea?
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Answered by Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (9 hours later)
Brief Answer:
Please accept that he is ill.

Detailed Answer:
Hello again

In my opinion sending a mail to XXXXXXX is not a good idea. He is in paranoid psychosis and in such stage he might file for police complaint and this would increase your problems. Please accept this thing.

Try to solve your ongoing problems. Try not to fight with XXXXXXX because she is your daughter and she cares about you. Please don't expect that XXXXXXX will come back. Even if he comes back he might become danger to you or anyone at any time. Try to find new things that can keep you busy in life. Please try to understand.

Thanks.
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Follow up: Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (12 hours later)
I am so mixed up. I broke off a tooth and it looks horrible..I am struggling with getting old and ugly and the thing with XXXXXXX took all of my will to live away from me. i feel horrible about myself and don't want anyone especially men to see me...it is also very hard to think about goinjg to israel..I have two thousand dollars but am using some of it to fix an old car...I feel so badly about myself old ugly useless....I can't seem to get out of this way of feeling about myself....maybe if I get a job and can get things fixed like my teeth I would feel better. but i don't think i will be going to israel and that is is hard for me to face too...not enough money...
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Answered by Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (9 hours later)
Brief Answer:
Try to get a job

Detailed Answer:
Hello again

Yes if you get a job that can pay you some money then you can think of going to Israel. But before that take care of your health. Your tooth got broken and this can cause problems. Take care of your health.

Thanks.
Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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Follow up: Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (15 minutes later)
I cant afford to take care of my tooth unless I get a job. I am still hoping for the peer counseling position as I cannot stand for any length of time due to my bad leg....how long do you think before I get over Michael? I always think of him on Wednesdays and Sundays because he works those days,

Do you think he will just get worse and worse? Will he keep contacting law enforcement if other people go to his store or is he just doing it to XXXXXXX and me...Does he hear our voices in his head?
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Answered by Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (1 hour later)
Brief Answer:
His condition can't be predicted

Detailed Answer:
Hello again

You have recovered a lot in past few weeks. Your thoughts are changing and with in next 6-8 weeks you should improve a lot. Just find ways to remain busy, try to avoid fights with anyone. Spend time in doing good work. This will make recovery fast.
XXXXXXX is deteriorating in his condition and has not shown any improvement in last year. No one has contact of him so his recovery chances are rare. He is still in paranoid psychosis but if he hear voices can't be predicted because this require direct consultation.

Thanks
Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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Follow up: Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (25 minutes later)
Thank you for your continued help. i am mostly worried now about my money situation. I wake up worried about it because I can't even go to the grocery store. If XXXXXXX was here it would be different. His Dad is charging him too much and I need him to help me pay for the car insurance because I just don't have enough money to pay for gas or insurance,,,,he only has $90 for the next three weeks. I am using the Israel money to fix the car...I just want to be in Israel and forget XXXXXXX entirely.I wish he had never come into my life, It has been a nightmare. I loved him so much and he nearly destroyed me. And yet I know I will always love him deep inside but it doesn't seem to be hurting me so much anymore. If he wants to be crazy and alone hust let him. He has the right to be crazy and lose everything....his house his business everything will be gone....his inheritance is gone too or almost gone anyway but thats what he wants..
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Answered by Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (7 hours later)
Brief Answer:
Try to concentrate on your health.

Detailed Answer:
Hello again

This is good that you have started to accept the illness of XXXXXXX His illness has resulted in huge loss to him but that has affected you too. Your precious time, money, health etc have gone to bad levels. Now try to improve these things. Please avoid any depressive thoughts. Just try to start a new life from beginning. Get the car repaired and become XXXXXXX again. You got your licence back and now try to spend time in your hobbies.

Thanks.
Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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Brief Answer: Keep yourself busy Detailed Answer: Hello again Try to find a job so that you get some money. Even the job at counselling can help you to get some money and will make you busy. You can try for that. Memories related to XXXXXXX will fade with time and you will come out of the problems. Just keep yourself busy. Thanks