Question: hi sir i am 26 years male...i am feeling very stressed after i did this.. 5 weeks back on september 5th 2016 i did something non sence with a lady who is working as maid...i know her only one month before of this happen.. i do not know her hiv status..

what i did is that she talked some tempting words.. i felt something different.. so that is lift her dress, actually we are in standing position, so that i rubbed her vagina(clitrios) with my thumb for 5 secs, i am not inserted finger into her vagina.. i did not open my trouser..

After that she laid down on floor, i lift her saree up, iam standing on my knees.. then i opened my trouser.. she touched my penis pumped 3 to 5 strokes(approx 5 sec ).. this time i did not touch or insert my finger into vagina.. i touched her boobs and press but i did not kiss or lick them.. i think i do not have any cuts on my penis or finger..she said to penetrate into her, but i felt afraid and i did not do that.. i pumped with myself with same hand which i rubbed her at start and ejaculate on skin near the vagina, there at leg joining place..

Is that virus transmit from her vagina to my hand while touching her vagina and then to my penis while pumping my self?

from this am i infected with hiv, help me sir iam so stressed.

from next day iam felt like cold for 5 days no other symptoms after 5 days i got fever remains upto 18th september.. doctor told me to blood test(cbc, widal, malaria) regarding fever. from that report he said there are typoid symptoms.. so he gave me tablets of antibiotics and paracetmol and vitamin tablets.. from next day i feeling fine..fever gone upto 1 week..again on 27th september in evening suddenly i got high fever..i had paracetmol suddenly after 1 hour i felt sweating and got good sleep..that next day again i went back to same doctor. he told me again to blood test(cbp).. by that report he told all things are normal..from that day iam getting low fever for upto 11th october..from past one week im felt like heatup my body in night..so that i suddenly wakeup and sweating happen..like that 3 times happen in whole night..i aksed doctor why this happen he told that because of paracetmol tablets using because of fever..
from 11 th i did not had fever, and sweating got reduced.

on 15ht night i stayed whole night in outside, actually it is cold night because this is winter
from next i got cold 16th. my nose blocked.

still my nose is blocked feeling and light fever feeling in afternoon.. aim feeling fine while swallowing, i thought no throat problem..

are these are symptoms of hiv infection

i do not understand what to do.. suggest me sir/madam

thank you sir
i am feeling light..
actually i am going to marry in the month of april next year, due to this i plan to stop the marriage.

am i need to test for hiv?

thank you very much sir for your valuable anser..