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Will Pre Marital Relation Affect Marriage Life?

Hello doctor, m sneha i lost my virgin with my boyfrnd nd bcoz of family issues m not able to marry him..nw my marriage is fixed with other guy..wil that guy come to knw dat m nt virgin nd i got aborted 1year back..will my husband come to know abt these things..is hymen surgery important to me.. age: 22 height: 5.2 weight: 50kgs
Tue, 22 Jul 2014
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Psychologist 's  Response
It's important for your husband to know about your virginity. Don't hide it from him

Your new relationship should not be based on lies as it's just going to weaken your bond with your husband
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General & Family Physician Dr. Niharika Kuntal's  Response
Look dear all things are relative, if we move back to our parents time things were very different regarding premarital sex. It never was acceptable, things keep changing with time and nothing can be generalized so stop thinking about good or bad and move ahead with your new life. Forget your past completely and start a new with full enthusiasm, think of building and nurturing the new relation that you are about to begin..................tc care all the best
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Diabetologist Dr. Riyaz Sheriff's  Response
No. Hymen can tear because of many other reasons like sports, exercises etc.. So you can always manage. Secondly if the guy whom you are gonna marry now is broad minded you can discuss with him to avoid any future problems. But i can guarantee you that most guys in India are not broadminded in this issue.. So think and decide. Cheating your future husband may spoil your family life later on..
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Will Pre Marital Relation Affect Marriage Life?

It s important for your husband to know about your virginity. Don t hide it from him Your new relationship should not be based on lies as it s just going to weaken your bond with your husband