Dear Welcome to HCM We understand your concerns I went through your description. I suggest you not to worry much. The best course of action is circumcision surgery. This surgery is so easy and risk less that you can go back to work immediately. Your doctor suggested the right thing. Alternatively, you can have some oil massage twice or thrice a day to increase the elasticity of the skin and then it may retract. This method may not give the desired effect. You might need psychological counseling., I am more than happy to provide telephone psychological counseling through healthcaremagic. Contact me through customer care, www.healthcaremagic.com. Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications. Good luck.