Dr. Hanif warmly Welcomes you! Thanks for consulting at my virtual clinic. I have carefully worked through your case, and I can realize your health worries. Being your physician, I assure you not to worry as I will take care all of your medical concerns.   Sex drive depends on a lot of factors. There is hormonal influence, pheromones, and a major impact is by psychological factors. If you have Dyspareunea (pain during sex) it will take away all the intimacy and charm. This pain may be due to dryness of vagina due to lack of function of vaginal glands. Irregular menstrual periods are an indication of hormonal imbalance. Are you having a psychiatric illness e.g. depression, anxiety etc. Your Gynaecologist can rule out the cause of this loos of libido. Please consult her as soon as possible. Keep a balanced , diet, good physical activity, plenty of fluids and keep yourself away from psychological disturbances. Meditation will help you a lot. If any psychological issue is obviously present, please consult a Psychiatrist and he will take care of that issue. You will alright with treatment. Hope it helps. If you need further, detailed and quick assistance related to any health issues in future, feel free to ask me a question directly from my profile. Have a wonderful time ahead.   Best Regards! DR. MUHAMMAD HANIF USA