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What Is The Treatment For Anxiety And Depression?
Dear Doctor
This is regards to my wifes mental condition which Iam unable to understand ,We are married since 4 years and donot have kids and ours was a love marriage ,we both are working ,she is very good in her work and very bad in managing the house
From the day one I had noticed few changes in her which lasts only for few minutes,I thought it might be due to change of place and will get adjusted slowly ,lately it has become a routine that she started abusing me physicaly and mentaly with words and deeds .she will be good sometime and bad some time ,Her mood and state of mind changes when she comes back to home after work or when she sees me .she doubts me also for my commitment towards her .she will scream try to create a scene and she does not care where she is and to whom and howothers will take it ,It will last for some time and later she calms down .
When she starts to speak in that state of mind she will speak for 2 -3 hours nonstop abusing me,cries and starts shivering .
Lately I came to know that she was taken to a psychiatrist in her Home town which her parents deny
Whatever it may be she is good and I need to know how I can help her to be normal and what I should do .
I need to know whether I have to take her for counselling to find a solution, please guide me.
Regards
Salil
0000
bangalore
This is regards to my wifes mental condition which Iam unable to understand ,We are married since 4 years and donot have kids and ours was a love marriage ,we both are working ,she is very good in her work and very bad in managing the house
From the day one I had noticed few changes in her which lasts only for few minutes,I thought it might be due to change of place and will get adjusted slowly ,lately it has become a routine that she started abusing me physicaly and mentaly with words and deeds .she will be good sometime and bad some time ,Her mood and state of mind changes when she comes back to home after work or when she sees me .she doubts me also for my commitment towards her .she will scream try to create a scene and she does not care where she is and to whom and howothers will take it ,It will last for some time and later she calms down .
When she starts to speak in that state of mind she will speak for 2 -3 hours nonstop abusing me,cries and starts shivering .
Lately I came to know that she was taken to a psychiatrist in her Home town which her parents deny
Whatever it may be she is good and I need to know how I can help her to be normal and what I should do .
I need to know whether I have to take her for counselling to find a solution, please guide me.
Regards
Salil
0000
bangalore
Tue, 6 Jan 2015
Dear
Welcome to HCM
We understand your concerns
I went through your details. I suggest you not to worry much. You are almost right. Initially you should take your wife for counseling. please take her to a experienced counseling psychologist who is trained to identify mental disorders. Psychological counselors should be able identify whether your wife has any mental disorders or these are just stress / family related problems.
In any case, before proper diagnoses, you should not conclude anything. Because such a diagnosis may detach you from her and love lost. Understand your wife and love her, for love can cure so many mental stress related problems.
I can help you in this aspect. Psychotherapy techniques should suit your requirement. If you require more of my help in this aspect, Please post a direct question to me in this URL. http://goo.gl/aYW2pR. Make sure that you include every minute details possible. I shall prescribe the needed psychotherapy techniques.
Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications.
Good luck.
Welcome to HCM
We understand your concerns
I went through your details. I suggest you not to worry much. You are almost right. Initially you should take your wife for counseling. please take her to a experienced counseling psychologist who is trained to identify mental disorders. Psychological counselors should be able identify whether your wife has any mental disorders or these are just stress / family related problems.
In any case, before proper diagnoses, you should not conclude anything. Because such a diagnosis may detach you from her and love lost. Understand your wife and love her, for love can cure so many mental stress related problems.
I can help you in this aspect. Psychotherapy techniques should suit your requirement. If you require more of my help in this aspect, Please post a direct question to me in this URL. http://goo.gl/aYW2pR. Make sure that you include every minute details possible. I shall prescribe the needed psychotherapy techniques.
Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications.
Good luck.
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