Hi, I can understand your distress.
It seems to an insect bite, by a bee or wasp or spider.
Redness , swelling, itching and soreness can be delayed reactions of our body. Generally it is for a short period, and goes away within 2-3 hours.
The black spot may be a stinger, and you can see it under a magnifying
lens. Please try to scrape it, safely.
You may apply
cold compress to reduce the swelling. Please use any antihistamine like Tab
Cetirizine to reduce itching. Try any local anti-allergic ointment like Fluocinolone.
Consult local physician if the symptoms increase, or if there is no relief.
Best wishes for speedy recovery