Hi, my spouse has a reading on the bp monitor of 166 0ver 128 and numbness in his fingertips!!! I am scared to death, he hasn t taken blood pressure pills regularly in years. He eats too much... too much salt, sugar, fats, alcohol and is an avid smoker pack a day @ least.......what do I do to help? He is scared of Dr s and flat out refuses to go to the ER!!! Please help me!!!