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What Causes Difficulty In Ejaculation?

My wife would rather have several sexual encounters a day but would prefer 5 to 15 minutes...I however cannot cum in such a short period of time. Usually we have sex until we are both exuasted and I still dont ejaculate. I have been avoiding sex with her because of this...we have been married for a year and a half and havent had sex 10 times...she takes it personally if I dont cum. I am on blood pressure pills and psych meds but this has been a problem of mine for years
Tue, 9 Apr 2019
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Hi,

1. Regarding Normal physiology, a female can have multiple orgasms and recoil time is less. Male take time to recoil so they can have their erection back.

2. having sex till you become exhausted is good, you can burn a lot of calories too. but you can't be doing it all the way age factor, a place where you have sex, recent fight with your partner or in the workplace, stress, recent entertainment you had.

All this play in the duration of sex. also the base things your stamina, exercise, food habits and yoga if you are doing.

3. You cannot avoid sex with your partner, it will only worsen your relationship. As your partner is demanding, you should be provided if you can not make her understand, or take her for counseling.

4. Kindly share your pills name, so it will be easy to understand the side effects of the pills or talk to your doctor who prescribed the pills for you.

Hope I have answered your query. Let me know if I can assist you further.

Take care

Regards,
Dr S.R.Raveendran, Sexologist
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What Causes Difficulty In Ejaculation?

Hi, 1. Regarding Normal physiology, a female can have multiple orgasms and recoil time is less. Male take time to recoil so they can have their erection back. 2. having sex till you become exhausted is good, you can burn a lot of calories too. but you can t be doing it all the way age factor, a place where you have sex, recent fight with your partner or in the workplace, stress, recent entertainment you had. All this play in the duration of sex. also the base things your stamina, exercise, food habits and yoga if you are doing. 3. You cannot avoid sex with your partner, it will only worsen your relationship. As your partner is demanding, you should be provided if you can not make her understand, or take her for counseling. 4. Kindly share your pills name, so it will be easy to understand the side effects of the pills or talk to your doctor who prescribed the pills for you. Hope I have answered your query. Let me know if I can assist you further. Take care Regards, Dr S.R.Raveendran, Sexologist