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What Causes Anxiety In My Chest?
good afternoon.my name is andrea.i am 30years old woman.im going through a break up.
anytime i enter relation i am fine,until i do not get emotionally attached to that person.i start to be suspicious and paranoic.it always happens after a month or two of relation.and im start acting the way that it makes the guy to withdrawn from relation.
the thing is that i always put him first and i forget about me.
i always get the fear of losing him,that im doing such things to keep him attached to me.but all those things are wrong.the result of this everything is me not sleeping and not eating well.
i have lost 6kgs in last 3weeks,i only eat so that i do not faint.smell of a food makes me want to vomit.
if i do not take sleeping pills i wake up several times in the night with feeling of anxiety in my chest.
i know this is normal when you break up with a person.but this has been going on with me for past 2years,when i broke up with 3guys.it seems to me like i cant keep any relation longer then 2months and then i start freaking out.
i would like to know your advice.i have been considering a treatment by some medication,i know it wont change my behaviour,but i need to rest my mind.
i want to go and see psychologist over here in dubai,where i live.or do you recommend to go and see psychitrist straight away.
cause even if i know that the relation is not right for me i keep on holding on to it and i cant let go.
it drives me crazy. i would like to thank you for your time.
anytime i enter relation i am fine,until i do not get emotionally attached to that person.i start to be suspicious and paranoic.it always happens after a month or two of relation.and im start acting the way that it makes the guy to withdrawn from relation.
the thing is that i always put him first and i forget about me.
i always get the fear of losing him,that im doing such things to keep him attached to me.but all those things are wrong.the result of this everything is me not sleeping and not eating well.
i have lost 6kgs in last 3weeks,i only eat so that i do not faint.smell of a food makes me want to vomit.
if i do not take sleeping pills i wake up several times in the night with feeling of anxiety in my chest.
i know this is normal when you break up with a person.but this has been going on with me for past 2years,when i broke up with 3guys.it seems to me like i cant keep any relation longer then 2months and then i start freaking out.
i would like to know your advice.i have been considering a treatment by some medication,i know it wont change my behaviour,but i need to rest my mind.
i want to go and see psychologist over here in dubai,where i live.or do you recommend to go and see psychitrist straight away.
cause even if i know that the relation is not right for me i keep on holding on to it and i cant let go.
it drives me crazy. i would like to thank you for your time.
Fri, 2 Jan 2015
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Welcome to HCM
We understand your concerns
I went through your details. I suggest you not to worry much. I can understand your scenario. My advise will be to go to a psychologist for that matter. I also appraise you the psychologist will always provide you some methods to overcome your current separation anxiety. Also you will be provided mental streamlining methods to manage your behavior prior and after to those relationships.
I would say, once you know that you will experience these problems, when you have relationships, it is always wiser to be away from relationships altogether. I think that makes sense.
I can help you in this aspect. Psychotherapy techniques should suit your requirement. If you require more of my help in this aspect, Please post a direct question to me in this URL. http://goo.gl/aYW2pR. Make sure that you include every minute details possible. I shall prescribe the needed psychotherapy techniques.
Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications.
Good luck.
Welcome to HCM
We understand your concerns
I went through your details. I suggest you not to worry much. I can understand your scenario. My advise will be to go to a psychologist for that matter. I also appraise you the psychologist will always provide you some methods to overcome your current separation anxiety. Also you will be provided mental streamlining methods to manage your behavior prior and after to those relationships.
I would say, once you know that you will experience these problems, when you have relationships, it is always wiser to be away from relationships altogether. I think that makes sense.
I can help you in this aspect. Psychotherapy techniques should suit your requirement. If you require more of my help in this aspect, Please post a direct question to me in this URL. http://goo.gl/aYW2pR. Make sure that you include every minute details possible. I shall prescribe the needed psychotherapy techniques.
Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications.
Good luck.
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