Dear Welcome to HCM We understand your concerns I went through your details. I suggest you not to worry much. Your description leads us to so many relationship, behavioral and family problems. The behavior pattern of your husband leads us nowhere diagnostically. But I can assure you that it may not be depression or some mind of mental problems. Temper tantrums (anger problems) are common among families and in relationships. I think you need to talk to him through a mediator from your family. Then take him to a psychological counselor or family counselor. Negotiation do solve many problems. Please do not jump into conclusions. In case of requirement, you can contact me too. You can post a direct question to me in this website. Include every detail as much as you can. I shall prescribe some psychotherapy techniques to control your condition. I am sure that the techniques should be a success. Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications. Good luck.