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I love a girl when i told her that i love her..she said that she didn t want to hurt me and she can live with me only as a friend...now i am only thinking about her every second...i am unable to do anything....i m feeling that i should cry but i m controlling my self....it appears to me like i am killing my self or a part of me dying inside me....i love her i can t live without her....its feeling like hell....plz help me..plzzz i need ur help immediately
Thu, 5 Feb 2015
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Psychologist 's  Response
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Welcome to HCM
We understand your concerns

I went through your details. You can live without her and you did it so many years in the past. Now nothing has changed except your obsession. You should be able to deal with it. when you got a definite answer from that girl, that she is just a friend, you are refusing to accept that fact. That is why you are in this bad state. Human being has ability to forget anything and everything. Just be engaged yourself with entertainment and games. automatically within a week your state will change.

If you require more of my help in this aspect, please use this URL. http://goo.gl/aYW2pR. Make sure that you include every minute details possible.

Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications.
Good luck.
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Psychologist Dr. K. V. Anand's  Response
Dear
Welcome to HCM
We understand your concerns

I went through your details. I can assure you nothing will happen to you. Within a week or so, you will start leading a normal life, because you cannot be like this always. This is not depression. This is just disappointment.

When that girl refused, you were disappointed. Still you are hopeful about her. But that is not going to happen. That realization will change your attitude and obsession. Don't worry.

If you require more of my help in this aspect, please use this URL. http://goo.gl/aYW2pR. Make sure that you include every minute details possible.

Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications.
Good luck.
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Dear Welcome to HCM We understand your concerns I went through your details. You can live without her and you did it so many years in the past. Now nothing has changed except your obsession. You should be able to deal with it. when you got a definite answer from that girl, that she is just a friend, you are refusing to accept that fact. That is why you are in this bad state. Human being has ability to forget anything and everything. Just be engaged yourself with entertainment and games. automatically within a week your state will change. If you require more of my help in this aspect, please use this URL. http://goo.gl/aYW2pR. Make sure that you include every minute details possible. Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications. Good luck.