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Dr. Andrew Rynne
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Dr. Andrew Rynne

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Suggest Remedy For Lack Of Interest In Sex

Hi doctor.....i wanted to discuss with you about my husband's problem.I dont know if this case is common or rare or is it because am an unlucky woman.My husband is not interested or he doesnt know the ways to express love to his wife...i mean in all ways......what a wife expects from her husband tht i dont get it in the least way itself.So what to say about sex then.......... he just finishes everything within no time..............doesnt bother abt my mood...my happiness my satisfaction at all.........He is a bit shy type to discuss openly such matters and as to him all such things are like something to b done in dark.I wonder y such a nature for such a young man. from the very first day of our married life i notice this and am totally unhappy still about it.Its now long 8 years after our marriage n got a son in between after medical consultations.He works abroad so we r not together all times.Now i feel i cant adjust to it anymore.....But at the same time i dont want to lose him just bcoz of this problem though its a very big issue.I have many times clarified frm him if he loves me or so...but it seems like he dont have any aversion to me......then y so????plzzzz plzzzzzzzzz plzzzzzzzzz help me out doctor and plz tell me the remedies i can do to change his nature or suggest me whom i should consult.I really wish to lead a happily married life like others.Thank you.
Fri, 29 Jul 2016
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This is very common so don't worry.There are many issues to be considered- his shyness, ?problem of early discharge, low testosterone, living separately for long intervals so he is already charged up when he meats you, developing performance anxiety, and tendency to avoid sex. You need to talk to him and assure him it is treatable.I have honk he also wants to be enjoy sex but many factors are holding him back .xxx
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Suggest Remedy For Lack Of Interest In Sex

Hi This is very common so don t worry.There are many issues to be considered- his shyness, ?problem of early discharge, low testosterone, living separately for long intervals so he is already charged up when he meats you, developing performance anxiety, and tendency to avoid sex. You need to talk to him and assure him it is treatable.I have honk he also wants to be enjoy sex but many factors are holding him back .xxx