2 months ago I had surgery on L4 L5 fusion for siatic pain. I awoke with a cathiter and had numbness in my penis and scrotum. After 4 days cathiter was removed and I started bathroom visits and found that my anus was also numb. to the point I had no control over it. To this day I am still numb but I can control my anus. I have become acustom to the felling, but am still having numbness from my rectul area to the end of my penis. Sex is no good and orgasms hurt. Urine flow seems slow. My Dr. Said it would take time.