Hi, my daughter is having severe pain behind her left ear, actually the focal point is above the ear. I felt both sides of her head and there is swelling, or lumps on the left. She does have fluid come out of her ears sometimes....once in a great while. However, she also has epilepsy, so I don t know if something started up with that. This is a stabbing pain and even hurts in her jaw if she tries to eat. She also has a headache