I just found out I m pregnant . The father is my ex boyfriend, I just found out yesterday he was cheating on me and I have dumped him. I do not want to get back with him. My parents are religious and dont even know I m not a virgin. I am eighteen years old and I am going to college later this year. I have hardly any money and I am not mature or emotionally ready for a child. I want to get my degree and get a job and a house and find my one true love and marry him before I have children. This would just destroy my life. I feel so distraught, I dont know what to do. I dont think I could carry a child and then give it away for adoption. I d want to keep it but I just cant, it would be so unfair on the poor baby, I can barely take care of myself. I wish I d kept my virginity until marriage. Please help. Should I get an abortion? i DID use contraception!!we used a condom and i got the morning after pill but it didnt work!